I think i should be here :-/

[Cajadaem]

well, at the moment i am all confused, i have been a little all over the place lately, and totally miscalculated my dates, by a week!?!?! like how on earth did i manage that???? still making my head spin at mo!

So, i am/was WTT for August onwards, and came off cerazette a month or so ago. I had a period on 9th June, and for some reason worked out i would be fertile next week (to avoid getting pregnant this month).
last night me and OH had unplanned intercourse, spur of the moment, and we didnt use any protection at the time i thought it would be fine, i'm not fertile for a week
Then mid morning today i went to the loo and was shocked to say the least to see what was undoubtedly fertile muscus, i had a big 'OMG' moment, followed by staring at it for ages (TMI).
I came back downstairs, opened up my diary and counted the days, and i am right smack bang in my fertile stage

I dont really know how to feel at mo if i am honest. Of course we really want a baby, but this risk could mean its a little earlier than planned

Part of me is saying if it happens so be it, another part is struggling with figuring out how i could get my dates so wrong, i should be a pro by now

 

[Cajadaem]

ok, so its been a couple of days now, and i also had fertile mucus yesterday, but nothing today. It is on my mind an awful lot, but i am starting to try and put it to the back of my mind, i keep telling myself it will be fine, its not that easy anyway

 

[Cajadaem]

i will keep posting on here, like a blog, for myself if nothing else, as i am so forgetful, if i dont write what is relevant whilst it is on my mind, i will forget.
I used an OPK strip today, and it was negative. Fingers crossed we had a lucky miss this month, and will be more careful next month, now i am fully aware of dates, and then be ready for full on TTC in August

 

[misspriss]

Just remember one act of intercourse during your fertile period is not a guarantee of pregnancy, just look at all the women on these boards who try for months or even years with perfectly timed intercourse. I wouldn't worry too much.

 

[dizzy65]

id try not to stress about it, some times it takes more than just sex once.

 

[babyvaughan]

What I tell my girlfriends is you can't change it now, if your pregnant your still going to be pregnant even if you stress yourself out til your going crazy so calm down and take it as it comes dont doom yourself before you even know. I can tell you while one opps can make a baby, trying to get pregnant can be really hard. I thought it would be easy I was healthy, young, and happy but i'm at my 3.5 yr mark and no baby. But like I said rather dwell on not timing it right it happened because it was mean't to happen stress yourself out if your not pg will only delay your period and freak you out longer.

 

[Cajadaem]

thank you peeps for your replies. i have been getting positive tests for pregnancy since 10 DPO, was very faint then, but definitely a line now. So i guess i am moving to another board. thanks again x

 

[misspriss]

Congratulations! I know it's a bit earlier than you had planned, but you still have 8 months to get ready! Have a happy and healthy pregnancy and I wish you all the best!

 

[Cajadaem]

Thank you hun. Still in shock if i am honest. I will be fine yes, just a bit WOW (and oops)