aymz1983
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....I'm going to type it all out anyway and maybe I'll jinx myself ha. I know you lot are a wonderful bunch of knowledgeable people so I hope I am ok to post here. Apologies in advance if it's long... Maybe this could be the post you read whilst testing and waiting for the 2 or 3mm read time 
So I'm on cd38 still no af. This is the longest I have gone without her arriving in...well, I can't remember when. My cycles were 29 days this time last year, then they slowly crept to 31, last month was 34 and now 38 (and counting).
I thought I o'd on cd22 judging by ewcm but then looking at my rhr and the pattern with that previously, put o at cd20. So was expecting af 3 days ago, or even yesterday by ewcm but there is nothing. I did see some blood in underwear last night and thought, finally, she's here! Put on a pad and when I woke this morning there wasn't a great lot on it. Which is normal sometimes, if it starts in the evening it can be light spotting or just light and then gets going the next day. Today though, I've had a couple drops on the pad and nothing more and there is nothing when I have a wipe around 'there'. So I don't think it was af but rather a (tmi sorry) boil on my top inner thigh I've had trouble with before..
Cm was ewcm on cd 22, ewcm and thinner/watery on 23, then creamy/sticky/watery on cd24 and cd25. I've googled and googled as you do, and is it possible I o'd later than cd22 going by cm? I thought o day was day of ewcm but then I also read it's the last day of any fertile cm and it's confusing.
Im confident I did O, I just don't know when? I had sore bbs which I always get after O, and then they taper off as af comes. They have tapered off but still slightly sensitive I guess.
I don't feel pregnant, and I last tested Tuesday early evening (albeit on an hour or so hold). I don't feel pregnant, I've been having af style cramps for a week now, just no sign. I may test tomorrow if there's still no sign but I expect bfn.
I guess what my mind is going over and over is does it sound to everyone else like I have o'd (ntnp so no temping or opks) and is it possible it's just really late? And is this normal? If I haven't o'd I think I might start to worry more. I'm 37..
It's not normal for me so now I'm having all sorts of thoughts about menopause or being too big (coincidence as weight increased in lockdown so have my cycles?!)
I'd be grateful for any thoughts, my brain just won't shut off
So I'm on cd38 still no af. This is the longest I have gone without her arriving in...well, I can't remember when. My cycles were 29 days this time last year, then they slowly crept to 31, last month was 34 and now 38 (and counting).
I thought I o'd on cd22 judging by ewcm but then looking at my rhr and the pattern with that previously, put o at cd20. So was expecting af 3 days ago, or even yesterday by ewcm but there is nothing. I did see some blood in underwear last night and thought, finally, she's here! Put on a pad and when I woke this morning there wasn't a great lot on it. Which is normal sometimes, if it starts in the evening it can be light spotting or just light and then gets going the next day. Today though, I've had a couple drops on the pad and nothing more and there is nothing when I have a wipe around 'there'. So I don't think it was af but rather a (tmi sorry) boil on my top inner thigh I've had trouble with before..
Cm was ewcm on cd 22, ewcm and thinner/watery on 23, then creamy/sticky/watery on cd24 and cd25. I've googled and googled as you do, and is it possible I o'd later than cd22 going by cm? I thought o day was day of ewcm but then I also read it's the last day of any fertile cm and it's confusing.
Im confident I did O, I just don't know when? I had sore bbs which I always get after O, and then they taper off as af comes. They have tapered off but still slightly sensitive I guess.
I don't feel pregnant, and I last tested Tuesday early evening (albeit on an hour or so hold). I don't feel pregnant, I've been having af style cramps for a week now, just no sign. I may test tomorrow if there's still no sign but I expect bfn.
I guess what my mind is going over and over is does it sound to everyone else like I have o'd (ntnp so no temping or opks) and is it possible it's just really late? And is this normal? If I haven't o'd I think I might start to worry more. I'm 37..
It's not normal for me so now I'm having all sorts of thoughts about menopause or being too big (coincidence as weight increased in lockdown so have my cycles?!)
I'd be grateful for any thoughts, my brain just won't shut off
