I thought I was fine....I was wrong

[Mellymel]

I posted about my recent experience but I forgot to add that I have been okay for several weeks post d&c. I am able to talk about it now without crying and I stopped randomly crying.

Then I went to see the OBGYN for the first time. There were 2 pregnant women in the waiting room and one woman coming out with twins. I started to feel sad again that I was going in for something completely different than them.

Explaining my feelings and seeing these women made me cry again. I am happy for all of the women who are happily new moms or becoming new moms.

I am a very strong person so this was a surprise to me.

 

[bubblz82]

When did you loss your little one? I lost mine 9 weeks ago.
I started to feel better, could pass the day and not cry. At the minute and staff in the school I work has found out. I am reliving it all. Have cried everyday again for a week.
It is so hard. Really low at the minute

 

[mel28nicole]

It'll be two weeks past my D&C on Saturday. I'm starting to feel better, my fiance has been so helpful. Today I was watching a True Life episode and the girl found out she is pregnant and they kept doing the whole "oh I wonder what they'll look like, wonder if it's a boy or girl" and it got to me. My fiance was able to help me feel better. I just look to him now every time I start feeling down. He's so strong. I wish I was as strong as him lol.

 

[Mellymel]

So sorry for your losses!!

I had the d&c Jul 10/13, so close to when you lost yours bubblz82. I hope that you'll find that peace again soon!! xo

mel28nicole - you're very lucky to have such a great fiance. My husband was great but he just doesn't get it. He wasn't the one wanting a baby. He tried to be supportive but he just isn't great with communicating.