I thought I'd be excited about my first U/S

[BaybeeMama]

I thought I would be excited but I'm scared as hell! I keep thinking that we will have the same outcome as the last scan I had. I keep thinking I'm going to hear those dreaded words again, "there's no heartbeat" and to top it off my husband might not be able to make it! One of the times that I truly need him by my side, holding my hand How am I going to get through this?

 

[LilFooshFoosh]

My DH didn't come to the first scan this pregnancy either, he wasn't in town. Neither was my mum. I was terrified but I did it, I figured if I made it through my loss I could make it through a scan. There is nothing we can do to change the outcome.

If you are really uncomfortable or scared is there someone else that could go with you? Or could you reschedule for when DH is available?

fxd for a great scan and a H&H9 for you

 

[StillPraying]

I felt the same way when I had a scan after a drop in HCG. The DR said "you have a miracle baby!" and I cried. But the next scan at 7 weeks, I was terrified. at 9 I was still waiting for "I'm sorry". I had a gender scan at 13 and now I think I'm okay.
It takes time but it will be okay Keep telling yourself "this is a different pregnancy."