Eltjuh
Mum to Lucas and Logan
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My sister and her husband have been trying for a baby for over 2 years now....My sister has been pregnant at least 8 times but everytime something goes wrong (around 6 weeks or so I think) She's had several tests done but no one knows why it goes wrong and it's obviously not infertility cause she has been pregnant....
She really wants to have a baby and she had quite a hard time with me being pregnant (with me being younger and not married as long as she was married and all that. Also I got pregnant the first month we tried)
I really want to help her and I know now what it's like to be pregnant and give birth and I really wanna do it for her....
I just don't know how to talk to my husband about it.... As he hated seeing me go through all the pain (4 days of labour) with our baby, so much so he said he doesn't want another baby (though I reckon he'll come round when our boy is a bit older) but I can't imagine what he'll be like if we've gotta give the baby away....Though it wouldn't be our baby.
And I am also not sure on how to tell my sister, cause I'd suggested it before but that was quite a long time ago and I hadn't been pregnant myself yet. At the time she said she wouldn't want it cause I'm her sister and thought it would be too hard for me to give the baby to her... But I reckon I'll be ok with it, as I could still be an aunty and it wouldn't biologically be my child....
I'd like some help/opinions from you guys please! And any stories if you've been through this with your sister or someone else in your family....
She really wants to have a baby and she had quite a hard time with me being pregnant (with me being younger and not married as long as she was married and all that. Also I got pregnant the first month we tried)
I really want to help her and I know now what it's like to be pregnant and give birth and I really wanna do it for her....
I just don't know how to talk to my husband about it.... As he hated seeing me go through all the pain (4 days of labour) with our baby, so much so he said he doesn't want another baby (though I reckon he'll come round when our boy is a bit older) but I can't imagine what he'll be like if we've gotta give the baby away....Though it wouldn't be our baby.
And I am also not sure on how to tell my sister, cause I'd suggested it before but that was quite a long time ago and I hadn't been pregnant myself yet. At the time she said she wouldn't want it cause I'm her sister and thought it would be too hard for me to give the baby to her... But I reckon I'll be ok with it, as I could still be an aunty and it wouldn't biologically be my child....
I'd like some help/opinions from you guys please! And any stories if you've been through this with your sister or someone else in your family....