i want to try again but...

[iluvbump]

Is it really too soon???
I was told on a scan on valentines day i have mc, my OH and i ofc are saddened by this. And hes said we can try when im ready.
i dont want to do this till i have fully come to terms with everything.
But..
im feeling in a better place..
of course im never going to forget this.

Baby wasnt planned..
but when i found out we were both so excited.
I do want to try again. But is it too soon to try in next few months do you think??
Its not that i want to replace bump.. but ive realised i want to try again.
Is that so wrong?
xx

 

[Bambino2011]

hun do what u feel is right for u.i just MC and want to try again xxx

 

[readytta]

There's not one right time -only the right time for you and your OH. I m/c at 10 weeks in Jan and waited (with a lot of difficulty) for one cycle to try again. You will know when the time is right for you. I felt completely drained when it happened and it's taken me till now to feel strong again. And I'm hopeful and looking forward to being pregnant again and hopefully, having a better outcome next time. I think that being pregnant again will help as it will feel like we're moving forward and help us deal with things, if that makes sense

 

[iluvbump]

Thankyou.
I spoke to my OH about how i feel this morning.
And he said if i get pregnant again soon and people dont agree with it/like it thats their problem. he said if we are happy then thats that.

I have to admit when we first had sex after this has all happened. it really hurt.. i dont know if thats because it had been a couple months since we done anything or if its because of whats happened.
it doesnt hurt now.
but i did wonder.

I do want to try again. but then as i know theres a chance i wont concieve for a while anyway.

I dont view getting pregnant again as replacing bump.
But as you said it can help us move on.
i will NEVER forget bump. ever.
i loved little bump.
and the day i discovered bump had gone it broke my heart.

I got drs today as they want to see how im doing since this all.
i dont want to go if im honest
xxx

 

[HollieQ]

omg it's nobody else's business but yours hunnie, don't even worry about them not agreeing with whatever deision you make

 

[Duffy]

It's up to you what you decide but if you feel your ready then your ready

 

[iluvbump]

Thankyou for support.
I even asked my mum today if she thinks what i want to do is wrong.
and she said no if we are ready to try i shouldnt listen to what others say
xxx