Louise
Proud mum to baby Nick
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Hi ya to you all. This will probably mean nothing to any of you, as I am not writing about a baby who has been born premature recently, but I just want to tell all you ladies with premature babies, that although it seems to be a struggle right now, keep your faith and EVERYTHING will be fine.
I was born at 29 weeks, and this was almost 23 years ago so things back then were not as advanced as they are now.
I was born early due to my mother abusing alcohol and drugs, and on one occasion she was found over-dosed on the bathroom floor, whilst pregnant with myself. This resulted in me being born almost 3 months early.
With this, I faced a lot of problems- I had bleeding on the brain, very severly too, I had a heart problem, could not breath on my own and had issues with my lungs (very serious ones too) and my family were told that under no circumstances would I live any more than 24 hours.
They even had the hospital priest baptise me as they all thought I simply would not make it. Apparently, hours went by and I was getting progressively worse and on a couple of occasions had to be resucitated. Just as my mother, and the rest of my family, accepted that maybe it was time to let go, as soon as that priest finished his prayer, things took an amazing turn and I suddenly found energy to scream and cry, despite the fact that just minutes earlier I was lifeless.
There was never an explanation as to why I suddenly got better, and why my lungs started working better etc etc:, and since that day, everyone has believed firmly that it was a miracle, "a gift from god", that I survived.
I was born at 29 weeks, and this was almost 23 years ago so things back then were not as advanced as they are now.
I was born early due to my mother abusing alcohol and drugs, and on one occasion she was found over-dosed on the bathroom floor, whilst pregnant with myself. This resulted in me being born almost 3 months early.
With this, I faced a lot of problems- I had bleeding on the brain, very severly too, I had a heart problem, could not breath on my own and had issues with my lungs (very serious ones too) and my family were told that under no circumstances would I live any more than 24 hours.
They even had the hospital priest baptise me as they all thought I simply would not make it. Apparently, hours went by and I was getting progressively worse and on a couple of occasions had to be resucitated. Just as my mother, and the rest of my family, accepted that maybe it was time to let go, as soon as that priest finished his prayer, things took an amazing turn and I suddenly found energy to scream and cry, despite the fact that just minutes earlier I was lifeless.
There was never an explanation as to why I suddenly got better, and why my lungs started working better etc etc:, and since that day, everyone has believed firmly that it was a miracle, "a gift from god", that I survived.
With premature babies comes alot of health issues, so they say? and in some cases babies do face alot of problems later in life, but this isn't always the case. I am (i think so anyway) fit and healthy, and rarely do I make trips to see the dr. I bearly even suffer a cold these days!
So to all you ladies who are finding it hard at the moment with the fact your little ones were born earlier than expected- keep your faith, because whether you believe in god or not, there's "something" up there listening to your prayers. That in my case was proven and none of us were ever very religious, yet we firmly believe that I am on this earth today because "something" believed I should be and that despite all the odds, myself and my family deserved that "2nd chance".
Prayers and thoughts to all of your children,
Sorry to the mods if this post isn't really relevant, as I am speaking in past tense as a pose to here and now!
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So to all you ladies who are finding it hard at the moment with the fact your little ones were born earlier than expected- keep your faith, because whether you believe in god or not, there's "something" up there listening to your prayers. That in my case was proven and none of us were ever very religious, yet we firmly believe that I am on this earth today because "something" believed I should be and that despite all the odds, myself and my family deserved that "2nd chance".
Prayers and thoughts to all of your children,
Sorry to the mods if this post isn't really relevant, as I am speaking in past tense as a pose to here and now!
x x x