Jungle yes I had an sch too, but luckily it was gone by my 12 weeks scan. Now I have a low lying placenta causing some bleeding, but they say it will be moved up by my 20 weeks scan, which is October 24. We had a big scan at 15 weeks 3 days and they guessed a girl and boy, it seems consistant with heart rates and I really think that's what they are. But I cantwait to know for sure. I'm so sorry about your loss at12 weeks, how devastating.
T4b, don't feel bad about telling your friends, after waiting so long it's nice to be able to share with someone close to you. As for symptoms they will come and go, and some people get off easy and don't have any. And try not to read negative stories, that messes with my head so bad!