Hello everyone. I have just joined this forum as I'd appreciate some words of wisdom. WARNING - LONG STORY AHEAD - sorry... In August 08, I experienced my third consecutive loss - my first was a missed miscarriage - no bleeding, a scan revealed no heartbeat at 7 weeks; my second was an ectopic; and this third was another missed m/c. I should have been 13 wks, but it transpired that the heartbeat stopped sometime after an 8 week scan. We were devastated because we thought we were past the first trimester. We have no children yet. After the first in Feb 07 I was so petrified of trying again, I wouldn't consider it, but was coming round to the idea when in Nov 07 we had the ectopic and I had a cyst also so had to have surgery. The docs said we should wait 6 mths before trying again. We did that and were so excited to get a BFP in June this year - it all felt right. And then it went wrong. As it was my third in a row the hospital finally agreed to do some tests - I had blood taken for 14 tests the day of my D&C. I was told it could take up to 2 months for the results to come back so I've been trying to come to terms with the loss (which is hard because my younger sister is currently pg - due this week!). Anyway I'd heard nothing since 14th Aug so I started phoning a few weeks ago and it took them til yesterday to come back to me. The secretary (yep) told me my bloods are normal, and I now have to go for a HSG x-ray to check my tubes and womb. No consultation with the doc yet. Because they took so long I can't have the HSG this month, and the x ray dept told me there is such a short window each month that there's no guarantee i'll be seen next month. I've checked my dates and it definitely won't happen the following month because of Christmas. So to my dilemma - By my dates we could try again next week as I'll be O. I don't know what to do - there's no way of knowing if I'll get the HSG in the next 3 months and I feel like so much time has passed already. They may find nothing and then it would be like we'd wasted these months. But what if I get a BFP and it happens again? And the stress of TTC again? I'm thinking if we at least try and it doesn't happen I can hope for the HSG... Any advice ladies?