Ill lo...

[Laura--x]

For those who FOBS still see lo's... do you still let them have them when lo is ill?

 

[babybaillie]

Depends on how ill. Usually no. Whichcauses all sorts of arguments cause as my ex said if she took ill at his house i would still expect her back. But babies/kids only want there mums when there not well dont they

 

[xxannxx]

I agree with Babybaillie it depends how ill. I would still let LO go if its just a cold, or something simple, and he's still in good form, being himself, but anything more than that then no. It does cause arguments as ex says he's his father and can look after him just as well as i can, but i wouldn't leave him with anyone when he's ill, and usually if he's not himself, he just wants his mummy anyway. Anytime he has taken ill at ex's, he has came straight back cause he's been crying to go home and for his mummy.

 

[DizzyMoo]

Yep it depends on the illness to be honest, When a child lives with their mum & become ill they only want mummy, Same as if they lived with daddy they would only want daddy. If my child was ill elsewhere then i would want him home but i also understand where dads come from in the fact they still want to see them & they can look after them too, but when children are ill they only want the parent they live with.

If josh had a common cold & was generally ok ish in himself,talking & seemingly ok, then yes i would send him. If he was obviously quite off then hell no he wouldn't be going nowhere but i would possibly suggest his dad could come visit for an hour though.