First of all sis I already knew you still have feelings for him
it's so obvious
but seriously, he wasn't there during the pregnancy he wasn't there for
you and he even said it himself that he did not want the responsibility of having to be by you all the time, that's a horrible thing to say
He wants to be with a girl he can call whenever he pleases and be out with his friends whenever he wants, he basically wants a girl to be a toy and you're not that girl your idea of a relationship is completely different. Like you told me you want a family and that's not what he's looking for. I know he has been there during the last months but after he didn't have to actually be there for you but for the birth of the baby.
I personally think you should put him behind you he's just not ready to grow up right now. One day he might realize he wants a family but you can't wait after him for that day to come, live your own life enjoy your baby and know that I will always be here for you
I really don't want to see you in that situation he doesn't deserve you, you are worth so much more than what he's looking for.
I know, it's easy for me to say and I know you can't just forget about him, he is the father of your baby and he will want to see her, but right now he is only just that, the father of your baby. Shoot when he finally realizes he wants a family you are gonna be looking sooo hott!!! and it might just be to late for him and he's gonna be like, "man why did I have to be so immature?"
and yes I know he's only 17 and he wants to live his life but he should of realized that sex comes with responsibilities and sometimes consequences he had promised you that he was an honest family guy that he would be with you even if it was to happen and when it did first thing he did was run, he lied to you and that's not right at all. I'm sorry so long but I thought I should really say what I was thinking and this is the best way I can say it. Hope you not mad
I love you