Shocker, thanks for the understanding and sympathy, sweety I'm very proud of her for stopping too, I know it's only been a few days but she used to claim she couldn't go two hours without a fag xD I don't think I'll invite her to bnb though she may well find it on her own, largely because I wouldn't want her to see this! I've been speaking to her quite a lot recently and being nothing but supportive and giving her what legal and practical help I can over the phone, lol. I may well post in the teen section for her tho, ask the ladies there if there's anything she should know that the drs don't tell you ^.^ Thanks for that idea hehe
If all my training goes to plan, I've got another four years before ttc. OH plans to propose in 2 or 3 years depending on when we can get a house together, we'll marry early 2014 if all goes to plan and then try for a honeymoon baby! If the training thing doesn't go to plan but I can get a job, then it -might- be brought forward, but who knows! Our main goal is to be in our own home and married before we start ttc.
As to you, Georgie90, that was in no way patronising And I'm also not too sure what's wrong with wanting to have money set aside and being responsible over another life that already depends on me.... But hey, if you think that having no money set aside and neglecting an animal that is already entirely dependent on you is a good attitude for a mother, then maybe you won't make such a fab mum yourself. Think about that. Money doesn't buy love. It buys food and clothes and a roof over your head. It buys prams and nappies and bottles and all those other things you need to look after a baby, a dog, and yourself. -.-'
Sophie1205; when the heck did I imply you were scum? 'You lot' is a generic grouping term and I've already detailed which group of people I meant by 'you lot'. You're not scum. Thanks for your good wishes for my sister and myself, congrats on your baby and your engagement, too. Hope all goes well for you
If all my training goes to plan, I've got another four years before ttc. OH plans to propose in 2 or 3 years depending on when we can get a house together, we'll marry early 2014 if all goes to plan and then try for a honeymoon baby! If the training thing doesn't go to plan but I can get a job, then it -might- be brought forward, but who knows! Our main goal is to be in our own home and married before we start ttc.
As to you, Georgie90, that was in no way patronising And I'm also not too sure what's wrong with wanting to have money set aside and being responsible over another life that already depends on me.... But hey, if you think that having no money set aside and neglecting an animal that is already entirely dependent on you is a good attitude for a mother, then maybe you won't make such a fab mum yourself. Think about that. Money doesn't buy love. It buys food and clothes and a roof over your head. It buys prams and nappies and bottles and all those other things you need to look after a baby, a dog, and yourself. -.-'
Sophie1205; when the heck did I imply you were scum? 'You lot' is a generic grouping term and I've already detailed which group of people I meant by 'you lot'. You're not scum. Thanks for your good wishes for my sister and myself, congrats on your baby and your engagement, too. Hope all goes well for you