Im confused!!!

[Frankie]

Hi there im new around here so il say hi and make my question very brief!!!

**waves**

Right i came off the impant before xmas and had my 1st normal period 21st January which lasted until the 27th January.

Ive used on of those online calculators which predicted my fertile days to be any where from 2nd Feb - 6th Feb!! (with the 4th / 5th being my most fertile).

My partner and I have tried on the 3rd and the 5th.

What are the chances of me concieving? also ive had slight cramps in the bottom half of my belly but this could be due to excessive trying

Happy days would love any advice!!! xxxxx

 

[Minky28]

Hello and welcome! *waves back*

It's been quoted various figures, dependant on age, etc. Generally the consensus seems to be you have anything between a 20-30% chance per cycle, also worth remembering it can take up to a year providing there are no underlying problems. I hope that's of some help.

All the best x

 

[Frankie]

thats fine - im pretty relaxed about things if it happens it happens got to have fun trying

 

[Minky28]

thats fine - im pretty relaxed about things if it happens it happens got to have fun trying

Too right!
That's a good attitiude to have, you really don't want to end up like me. I'm daft as a brush already and it's only been 4 months TTC for us!

 

[Frankie]

Still would love to be though

Does it really play on your mind? I find myself day dreaming quite a bit

Trying to stay level headed lol

 

[Vickie]

Sounds like you have the right attitude. It's hard to stay level headed while TTC. Like Minky said don't get too down if it doesn't happen right away--it takes the average woman 5-6 months to conceive--and can even take up to a year for some women. Good luck in your TTC journey. I hope it happens quickly for you.

 

[Frankie]

im to busy to get down about it

Would be nice though!!! i shall be rather excited when it happens

 

[Minky28]

Still would love to be though

Does it really play on your mind? I find myself day dreaming quite a bit

Trying to stay level headed lol

God, yes it does (for me anyway). I've been through the mill a bit this month though, I'm not always quite so crazy. My poor OH was convinced I was pg, got me a test and of course it was BFN and the evil hasn't appeared yet.

Day dreaming is cool though, you're more than entitled to think about it a lot given what a big decision this is.

It's not always like this though, try and stick with the mindset you have atm, it's probably far more wise than driving yourself nuts like me

 

[Frankie]

God, yes it does (for me anyway). I've been through the mill a bit this month though,

heres hoping your test is positive next time around