Natty_babez
Alexa-Jayne & Daisy-Mae
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I suffered a miscarriage about 2 months back now and me and my oh decided we would try again straight away. I unfortunately didn't fall pregnant and had my af about 2 weeks ago. My oh and I had a conversation over the wknd and he has said he thinks we should put of trying for another baby now atleast until after we've got married !!
I'm devastated and can't stop feeling so low my miscarriage was the worst thing I've been through and the only thing which has kept me going is the thought of us having our rainbow baby and now my oh has said this I don't know what to think. We aren't getting married until May 2018 so by then I will be 31 and just don't want to have to wait that long. I am struggling with anxiety and depression badly since suffering the miscarriage and he's said he doesn't think I'd cope if I was to have another baby and he doesn't want to put me through what I went through a few months back. I know there's a possibility he may change his mind but I just don't know what to think anymore. I've always wanted another baby and since losing our other baby it has made me more determined to get pregnant this time and made me want it so much more than I ever thought I did.
Sorry for the rambling I'm just so upset
Xxx
I'm devastated and can't stop feeling so low my miscarriage was the worst thing I've been through and the only thing which has kept me going is the thought of us having our rainbow baby and now my oh has said this I don't know what to think. We aren't getting married until May 2018 so by then I will be 31 and just don't want to have to wait that long. I am struggling with anxiety and depression badly since suffering the miscarriage and he's said he doesn't think I'd cope if I was to have another baby and he doesn't want to put me through what I went through a few months back. I know there's a possibility he may change his mind but I just don't know what to think anymore. I've always wanted another baby and since losing our other baby it has made me more determined to get pregnant this time and made me want it so much more than I ever thought I did.
Sorry for the rambling I'm just so upset
Xxx