Im Having My D&C Today... *UPDATE READ ME*

[x_Rainbow_x]

Well today is dooms day... it had to come but i really dont wanna accept it.
iv never been put under before and im terrified to top it all they might not fit me in till late evening early 2 moz... i wont wait that long.
last night i woke up to the extream pain iv felt before my body is trying to reject the baby i could feel it comming away but my body refuses to let go... if i dnt get my d&c il have to go threw the pain of m/c myself
then i have to have lots of tests done on my blood.
i wanna no what we did wrong 4 times in a row.. its unfair

 

[mkmum]

thinking of you. hope all goes ok.

 

[nickyb]

hope its all over for you quickly hun so sorry for what your going through xxxx

 

[Christine33]

i am so sad to hear what you are going through. i am thinking of you.

Christine
XXX

 

[taperjeangirl]

 

[Vivanco]

Sweetheart you did NOTHING wrong, this is not your fault, but that is exactly how i felt everytime, the hospital told me they couldn't do anything untill i had 3 consecutive m/c's and i had one then my daughter then 2 more, i really hope the tests and investigative work they do will bring you the answers you deserve and there is something they can do to prevent it from happening, i am thinking of you sweetheart, i never had the d and c i naturally m/c the night before i was booked in, i hope it is made as easy for you as possible an hope they look after you. big hugs sweetheart x x x

 

[tillymum]

Big to you. I had a D&C in May, it does get it all over quickly and I hope everything goes smoothly for you, it is a stressfull experience but the staff in the hospital were very understanding and kind.
I cannot imagine the grief you are going through but my heart goes out to you.

 

[Vickie]

Thinking of you.

 

[xXDonnaXx]

Thinking of you hunni. xx

 

[coccyx]

All thinking of you.

 

[shmoo75]

I hope all goes well for you and they can not only give you answers but, help prevent it from happening again.

 

[superp123]

Hi hun. So sorry for your losses. I just went through a d&c last week thur. I have to say that I dreaded it in the worst way too. But the staff and my doc were all very compassionate and it was over before i even knew it started. I still have a little bleeding(spotting) and the pain only really lasted a day. Just sorness after that. I've had a natural mc and now a d&c and I have to say that the d&c is so much less stressful, and much much quicker. Plus they can test the fetus then and hopefully find answers. I know there isn't a whole lot I can say to make you feel better. But I wanted to reasure you that this way is okay too and for people who've had more than one mc it's probably the better way to go.
I hope your everything goes smoothly and that you will finally get the answers that you need. None of this is your fault. Thinking of you hun. Lots of hugs
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[trickysgurl]

Oh im sorry!!! There really isnt anything i can say that will jus make it better but if u need to talk.. Im here!!!

 

[NikiJJones]

Thinking of you and sending hugs.
We're here for you.
xxxx

 

[Blob]

Hope they give you the answers

 

[Lazy Leo]

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

iv just had the worst 24 hours of my life... i got to hospital they did all the medical checks got my own room got settled and then they said id be going to thetre at 5 so i needed a pre med at 3 to dilate my cervix ready to operate....
at 7 i still hadnt gone in i stood up coz the pain was unbearable and woosh.... i lost the baby there and then in a bed pan... they left me so long hanging on i couldnt get my dc coz i passed it all myself i felt like i was dying.
i had to stay the whole night to make sure my whole cervix got cleared.. 9 tablets later i finally got to come home.. i ache all over..
just coz surgery messed up all my times.

 

[AppleBlossom]

So sorry to hear all this hun. I hope you get the answers you're looking for soon

 

[maybebaby]

I am so sorry to hear you had to go through this.

 

[superp123]

That sounds just terrible. Sending you lots of hugs hun. Take care of yourself, and if you need to talk you can pm me anytime.
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