Im joining you in here

[Mumof42009]

Me and my oh have split up after 4 and half years together, ive had enough of him thinking of himself and no one else, putting everyone before me and the kids. All ive done today is i cant believe im going to be a single mum again, everything is still raw inside im 100% he was cheating on me as well.

 

[lilbetsy128]

im so sorry, it sucks so bad I have been single for almost 3 years have one child and one on the way. Sometimes I wonder how I'm gonna make it, but somehow I always do. Being single sucks when you have kids because the new guys you date have to be willing to accept them and you.

 

[mandy81]

Aww i'm sorry hun *hugs* xxxx

 

[Mumof42009]

Thanks ladies
I know its going to be hard im going to concerntrate on me and the kids from now on, cannot believe how shelfish some men really are!

 

[Welshcob]

Sometimes we are better off without them. When I had the FOB, he was unreliable, nice only when he felt like it. Abusive and controlling, in the end I was no longer me and I still am not really, have no confidence. He always walked as soon as you needed him, like when I was seriously ill, or my mum died, or I got pregnant, or miscarried. If I think of that, then we are all better off without them. The other scary thing is there are people like him who seem so charming out there looking for the next victim. He absolutely is and I know he will be saying the most dreadful things about me to his next victim...which is what he told me about his past ex. I really think I would rather be alone than have someone like that enter my life. At least we have the little ones!!! Hugs!!!

 

[lilbetsy128]

Keep your head up hun! you'll make it!

 

[Beautywithin]

I know how hard it is.. i brang up my daughter for 3 years on my own. if that is the kind of dad he wants to be.. then he is better off out of yours and your kids life, im not sure about you, but one of my biggest fears was being a teenage single mum.. and it came true, it took me a long time to realise my ex was a complete jerk. and me and my daughter were better off without him it only made us stronger. and trust me it will you.. you deserve to be with someone who loves you just as much as you do them... dont waste any more love on someone who has no idea when he has a good thing x

 

[embo216]

I'm so sorry hun. We're all here for you.x