im kinda really scared

[jomusiclover]

im 17 and had a misscariage on the 19 0f august and i think i might b pregnant again, i havent taken any tests at (im just too scared to so far) but i feel like i am, been feeling sickly and have been havin slight cramps as if im bout to go on my period, im due for a period in a few days, but it is worrying, has anybody lost a baby and managed to fall pregnant so quickly? :/

 

[CheerCoach]

Hi Jo,

It happens for many women that way. While I am not passing judgement of any kind, I have a 17 year old daughter myself and really hope you aren't TTC. You have many years ahead of you before you need to worry about raising your own child. When the time is right it will happen for you. Best of luck to you.

 

[jomusiclover]

im not TTC but im allergic to condoms and arnt allowed to go back on the pill atm, according to my doctor i have to let my body try and regulate it self 1st, but i have all the sympoms the same as my misscariage, and im dnt think i can handle it to be honest

 

[Vickieh1981]

im not TTC but im allergic to condoms and arnt allowed to go back on the pill atm, according to my doctor i have to let my body try and regulate it self 1st, but i have all the sympoms the same as my misscariage, and im dnt think i can handle it to be honest

Don't think you can handle what? If you mean being pregnant again then you are 100% totally posting in the wrong place. All of us here have lost our precious babies and are thrilled to be pregnant again. If that is the case you should be sorting out some kind of contraception.

If you mean you can't handle the worry of another miscarriage then jump in. We are all totally paranoid.

I don't necessarily think the age thing matters, I was 17 when I fell with my son, we were actively ttc and I am still with the same father 12 years and five kids on.

 

[Bittersweet]

sorry hun i know its gona be a scary time but like vickie said if you cant handle being pregnant again youv not posted in the correct place. I'm 18 and will be TTC in 2 days time. Im an angel mother of 4 and no for me age doesnt matter.
Also, no offence, but if you dont want to be pregnant again why did you have sex? If your not on any contraception. Plus the pill can sometimes help regulate your body after a miscarriage.

best of luck only answer is to take a test.
x

 

[jomusiclover]

its not that i dont want to b pregnant, i would love to have kids, im just worried bout the chance of another mc, im just confused atm i want another but i feel selfish for wanting another as if anything happens to it i will feel to blame. im more worried bout losing another than the pregnancy itself. i have many supportive people with me just no 1 i can talk to bout this

 

[lilwelsh1]

firstly sorry for your loss I also mc on 19th aug. I found out 2 days ago im pregnant again. I am scared beyond belief every little twinge makes me worry. Test whenever u feel ready and take one day at a time. Its all u can do. Im thrilled to b pg again but too worried to think about tomorrow so going to enjoy each moment the babys safe. Good luck hun,