I'm loosing my baby boy at 16wks what are my options?

[FEDup1981]

So sorry for ur loss. Thinking of you, and Buddy is a lovely name. Perfect xxx

 

[allmuddledup]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I personally think that going through labour and having the chance to say goodbye to your baby is better for you in the long run. I hope that things went as smoothly for you as possible. Buddy is a lovely name. He will be in good company with my little Gerri and all the angel babies that have gone before him.

Big to you. Be kind to yourself in the coming days. This may be the hardest thing you will ever go through. Xoxox

 

[Andypanda6570]

My heart is broken. I was suppose to get the D and E Yesterday. My Baby died in me on February 28 and they mad me sit her for 3 days with it inside of me , I went Thursday and got something done to open my cervix so i could do the D and E Friday, but I went into Labor in my home Thursday night and had my baby in the house and was rushed to the hospital. The baby most likely had Trisomy 18 The nurses told me what happened to me while traumatic was better than getting the procedure, I wont get into it either but I am mad as hell my doctor did not tell me what the procedure was and he said after inserting those things into me that I would have cramps NOT go into labor The nurses said what happened to me was rare but I should have been aware that it could happen, I still just found out what a D and E was just in the hospital and no I wont get into it either, I had no choice to do this procedure but my little angel would not wait and came out in my home. I held her and saw my children in her face, her face was beautiful. I will bury her this week in a cemetery that has a place called The Guardian Angels, where all the babies are buried.
I am beyond heartbroken and my heart aches for you , I am so so sorry.
I am mad as hell at what my doctor didn't tell me and for me I am glad my baby was born here at home, at the time I thought I was being punished for something but the nurses told me that I had an angel watching over me and this was a good thing it happened this way. I was out of the hospital in 4 hours and I am home now. You never get over this loss and my life will never be the same, never. I am 40 and they said cause the baby had the rare trisomy 18 there is a risk of it happening again so that combined with my age , I just don't know if I should try again.This pregnancy was a total accident but what a blessing. I have no words for your pain I am in the same pain now.
All My Love To You XOXOOXOX

 

[Andypanda6570]

I wanted to say there is a big difference between a D AND C and a D And E. I hope you know what a D and E is. cause I didn't. xoxox
but that was my only option a D and E, but she would not wait for that she came out on her own and I will be forever grateful for this.