thankyou ladys! your all stars, =) Im not really very pregnant! 12 weeks!! but ive already gotten a pretty extensive birthing plann to go over with my midwife at my 15 week app =P I qulifie for consultant led, but my midwife refused that care on my behalf because shes feels for me i qulifie for the wrong reasons, and that because im physicaly fit and gave birth with a 4hr labour and 15 min 2nd stage without any pain relife (too late for gas and air, theyd already stuck me with a pre-labour pethadin shot at what would of been 8cm dilated) she feels she is compleatly capable to care for me as any "normal sized" gal. =) she looked at me and said. Were not all tiny! some of us like chocolate. dosent mean we need a Dr =P she wants to be my personal delivering midwife =) bless her. i do love my midwife.
I will resurch and ask questions about everything youve mentioned. Still need to find my waterproof table cloth! my living rooms suspended above the garage, and we have wood floor and breeze blocks. dont want the garage to have blood splatters! =P x