I'm so hormonal I can't take it.....is this just a phase? Anyone else?

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Anyone have kids and pregnant? My hormones have been getting the best of me and I'm just so upset and disgusted with myself!!! I usually am so patient, actually beyond patient and my husband calls me a pushover all the time because I just think my kids are so precious and I can't stay mad at them or punish them too severely lol.....
Lately I'm on a rampage!!! I have NO patience for anything, I snap so easily..... The worst part is I find myself dropping Fbombs in front of my 4&5 yr old.... On a daily basis the past few wks..... I NEVER swore before this pregnancy, very rary would I slip in front of the kids.... And if I did it surely wasn't an F bomb!
I feel like a failure :( as a mother ..... I wonder whatnot kids think of me? I can't even control myself, I just start yelling over the smallest things and the worst comes out of my mouth.....
Anyone have any input on this? Any ideas or helpful words to help calm myself down when I snap so easily? Or is this just a phase and it will pass and don't think too much into it?
Ughhhhh c'mon pregnancy .... Work with me here!
 
I've been the same lately. I have a 22 month old, and I swear most of the time my patience lasts a whole 5 minutes of the day! I feel like I'm getting on to him every five seconds, and end up yelling at him. It doesn't help that right now, he finds it hilarious to get in trouble.
I am also exhausted most of the day, and have been having issues with my heart rate spiking and blood pressure going nuts. It makes me feel like a horrible mother a lot of the time, because I can't run around and play with him and have to sit on the couch and watch. He has always been very independent and plays well alone, but I can't help but feel awful because I'm not down there on the floor with him, pushing cars around.
 
I have been the exact same way so don't feel bad! It's not you, it's the hormones. Just remember that. I find myself having to step back a lot throughout the day and just breathe. I get upset with my son when I should not- hes just a baby :( I feel like the worst mother ever cuz he doesn't even know right from wrong.
 
Glad it's just the hormones !!! I have the same whacky heart issues also, I'm always sick and feeling horrid and get no sleep ever.... I'm sure that doesn't help any ..... Hopefully our kids won't ever remember this!!! Well babies won't that's for sure!! But ur right it's not us, it's the hormones..... 6 more months of this seems like an eternity..... Ahhhh!!!
 
I know- I am thankful for that at least but I still feel like a sh*** person :( cuz he has no idea he's doing anything to make me flustered. He's just being a baby. Hoping you have an easier go these next few months! The sleep definitely factors in. Maybe hubby can help you snooze more so it's a little easier? :)
 
I could've written your post myself. I feel like the worst mum in the world. Xx
 
At least we can all realize now that we are not alone in this <3 try not to stress too much ladies. The babies will be here soon :)
 

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