cbass929
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Ok this might all sound crazy, and sorry if it gets long...
I just had a mc the beginning of December, which was horribly hard on me. I did everything by the book from day one of trying. The date meant a lot, the due date was perfect, it just all seemed to perfect, but i guess it wasn't. It was only our first time trying, but 2nd mc. We have 2 other children 6 and 3.
Is it normal to go back and forth about weather you want to try again? At first i didn't and my hubby did as soon as we could. Then i kind of did and he didn't. Now i have no idea if i want to or not... I think about the pros and cons... I don't have to buy diapers, pullups nothing like that. My kids are on the road to doing everything alone. Hoping that once my daughter gets in school (1.5 to go) i will get my RN and work full time. But then i think i would love to have another baby, i was so wrapped up into having another one i couldn't picture us without a 3rd child.
But i just really don't know. How long does it take to get over that?
Right now we have gotten back to our very active sex life(couple times a day, sorry tmi). Although i'm not on BC and we are not using condoms, (we have always used the "pull out" method, didn't work so well with my first 2, hehe. But we have been doing this since about a year after have my daughter who is going on 4. We always said we wanted a planned pregnancy, but i almost rather it just happen and after the hard part has passed i will find out...
AHHAAA what to do... i mean i know its nothing that needs to be made up anytime soon and i can take as long as i need, but its constantly in my head, EVERYDAY! I think i'm driving my husband crazy talking about it, but if i don't let it out i'm going to drive myself crazy!!
Please tell me i'm not alone... this might be the wrong place for this kind of rant, but i'm NTNP??!!
Thanks laddies
I just had a mc the beginning of December, which was horribly hard on me. I did everything by the book from day one of trying. The date meant a lot, the due date was perfect, it just all seemed to perfect, but i guess it wasn't. It was only our first time trying, but 2nd mc. We have 2 other children 6 and 3.
Is it normal to go back and forth about weather you want to try again? At first i didn't and my hubby did as soon as we could. Then i kind of did and he didn't. Now i have no idea if i want to or not... I think about the pros and cons... I don't have to buy diapers, pullups nothing like that. My kids are on the road to doing everything alone. Hoping that once my daughter gets in school (1.5 to go) i will get my RN and work full time. But then i think i would love to have another baby, i was so wrapped up into having another one i couldn't picture us without a 3rd child.
But i just really don't know. How long does it take to get over that?
Right now we have gotten back to our very active sex life(couple times a day, sorry tmi). Although i'm not on BC and we are not using condoms, (we have always used the "pull out" method, didn't work so well with my first 2, hehe. But we have been doing this since about a year after have my daughter who is going on 4. We always said we wanted a planned pregnancy, but i almost rather it just happen and after the hard part has passed i will find out...
AHHAAA what to do... i mean i know its nothing that needs to be made up anytime soon and i can take as long as i need, but its constantly in my head, EVERYDAY! I think i'm driving my husband crazy talking about it, but if i don't let it out i'm going to drive myself crazy!!
Please tell me i'm not alone... this might be the wrong place for this kind of rant, but i'm NTNP??!!
Thanks laddies