I just don't understand myself...im so deeply in love with LO's dad but im going through phases of occasional crying (hysterical at times i have to admit!)...but has anyone not cried at all?...or actually stopped themselves from crying? I really try not to cry as it may help me get my hurt out but it doesnt help me in the long run...i keep thinking of the positives, keep thinking of all the good things that have come out of this!...and whenever i start looking at him in love i think of how he has done me wrong which really does the trick! Any experiences or tips girls? xx