In need of an encouraging PAL story!

[bernie86]

Hi Ladies,
I am TTC after a recent MMC at 10 weeks. We had testing done and the baby passed due to chromosomal abnormalities. Even though my Dr. assured me that this is very unlikely to occur again because I'm under 30 yo, I'm still so worried that it will and if it does that means there is something wrong with my DH and I. My other worry is that we won't conceive again quickly( we have been going for it since the week after the D&C) I was just hoping to hear someones success story for a little reassurance... I want to think positive rather than think about all the things that could go wrong Thank you

 

[flou]

I am close to my happy ending of my story. I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant with my rainbow and I just want my little boy here safe and sound after what has been a long and emotional journey. Me and my DH started ttc in April 2011. It took us 19 months to get our first bfp. When we did we were both overjoyed and mc never entered my head. It had taken us a while to get there so I was so happy to finally get that bfp. Unfortunately I mc at 6 weeks. I was devasted. It took us another 11 months of ttc to get our 2nd bfp. Again I was hopeful. We had both had some basic fertility tests and all was good so surely another mc couldn't happen but unfortunately it did. Again I mc at 6 weeks. We knew our fertility was good and the FS wouldn't test us for recurrent mc until I had had three. I felt like I was ttc for another mc. It only took us 7 months ttc this time to get our 3rd bfp. When it happened I was scared and happy. I had my first scan at 7 weeks and saw a heartbeat. This was the furthest I had ever come. I got nervous leading up to my second scan at 13 weeks but all was ok. And I don't think I really believed that I could have a baby until after my 20 week scan. We found out we were having a little boy and that helped me to bond with my pregnancy. Now I am less than 5 weeks off my due date. I'm still nervous about getting excited but I can't wait to hold my lil man. I think my DH and I have had a string of bad luck. I just hope this is our happy ending.

 

[DSemcho]

Well... I had an losses at 5 weeks - Mar 2011/Mar 2012 and then also losses in Mar, May, July and August of 2014. We had given up, then on Thanksgiving 27Nov, I got a BFP.. I was terrified because it was a long weekend. I'm going to be 16 weeks pregnant tomorrow and we are finding out gender in a week. I've only had one scare this whole time - when I spotted between 5+3 and 6+5. I'm fine now.