In need of support/advice

[Angel022605]

I need friends who are in the same boat as me. I'm thinking about kicking the BBT and just chart CM/CP. It's too stressful. I remember before I even knew about charting and tracking how we spontaneously BD(used BCP and condoms) and how much fun it was. Ever since I started tracking and charting I feel stressed. We we were NTNP back then and are currently NTNP. The reason I'm posting here is to get as much support/advice as I can. How did you get your BFP by just tracking CM/CP? Right now I take a multivitamin with folic acid and Vit C supplement. DH doesn't want me to take prenatals until we are full blown 100% TTC. I wanna know from experienced ladies any advice/support you have for NTNP by only CM/CP. I'm depressed and stressed right now and believe that taking away monitoring BBT will lower the stress. What are your thoughts??

 

[lilmisscaviar]

I too gave up trying to track my cycles after not getting pregnant within 3 cycles so far. With my previous cycles, I tracked CM/CP and used opks but I went so crazy with peeing on sticks that I essentially became an addict

TTC is just too stressful so we are going to ntnp for a couple months and hopefully get a BFP by Christmas. This month I'm only going by CM/CP. I'm pretty good at it now in being able to tell the difference. The hardest thing for me is to tell I would say is whether my cervix is opened or closed because I've had 2 previous vaginal births and 2 D&Cs so things are a bit stretched in there.

I have to say though that since I haven't been poas I have been much more relaxed about the waiting. Don't know if that'll all change in the tww though...