Hi everyone

Weekends are a little more busy for me so getting a moment to type is harder - please know that I'm not ignoring anyone
Amy - just to give you an idea of post stitch pain and discomfort. I went to hospital at 14wks walking upright and bounding around, after the surgery I could no longer climb the stairs (except on all fours), found sitting painful and from then on experienced constant tightenings and contraction-like feelings which were made worse with any kind of movement or stress (Dh and I had lots of stress-related disagreements too which triggered a fast pulse and tightenings). I also had excruciating pain when emptying my bladder, it made me cry out every time and that seemed to have been triggered by the catheter/stitch.
Although I was happier to know the stitch was in place, in reality it brought with it a whole heap of extra side effects which caused fear and regular trips to L&D

. All that you're experiencing is 'normal' after stitch, but you were right to get checked sweetie
Clint - I can totally understand both you and your wife's despair. As a man you must feel utter helplessness (my husband described the same), and as a woman it is absolutely soul destroying to fear every second of every day that your body might eject your beloved babies early and there is nothi you can do to prevent it

Please explain to your wife that not only does stitching increase uterine irritability, but so do twins. Even in normal twin pregnancy women experience lots of contractions (sometimes painful), but the pregnancy continues unharmed. Tell her that I only had to play on a Wii game with my son and the slight adrenalin increase triggered feelings of labour - it was vile and made me nervous to even breath!! Please give her my love, and let her know I'm here if she needs a shoulder of support
Tink - thinking of you sweetie. The girls are right that the ffn isn't conclusive so you shouldn't let it undermine your belief that all is going to be ok. If anything it is useful because it increases your vigilance and that of your medical team (never a bad thing). Love and hugs xx
Love you you all lovelies xxxx