Thanks, Lizzie. It seems like this is something that is always on my mind, especially now that I'm having to come off of my birth control (due to many bad physical reactions to all 3 that I have tried) and I am so scared of what will happen in my next pregnancy (which I hope is in the far future!). I didn't know what contractions felt like in the beginning, but looking back, I recognize contractions happening at 17 weeks, along with back pain. When I was first checked at 18 weeks, my cervix was already down to 2.2cm. I had a really stressful time from 16-18 weeks and I always wonder if that stress caused contractions, which caused my cervix to change, or if my cervix started changing early and that caused contractions.
I want to be able to get the best possible care in my next pregnancy, but I feel like that can't happen if I don't know what caused all of my problems.
And of course we're planning on having a nice, big gap between T&B and our next baby (or babies, as OH says. he thinks we get twin boys next, which only stresses me more, because I know it's possible!) but you know it's impossible not to worry about things like this.
I know that no matter when my next pregnancy happens, I won't be able to be on bed rest. Not with two little ones to take care of already, OH working full time, and no family near that would help us. So I feel like if I need a stitch, I need to get it early, before I start having problems, but what if I don't have IC, just PTL, and the stitch irritates things and brings on the PTL?
I am very hopeful for a singleton pregnancy. I think that would be way less stressful for me. My body has already carried twins to almost-30 weeks. At 27 weeks, I was measuring 45 weeks. So surely one baby will be just fine. I hope.
I worry too much.
Sorry for going on and on.
In other news! T&B have started holding their own teethers and bringing toys up to their mouths to chew on! They still don't grab for them, but if I put the toy/teether into their hands, they'll hold onto it. Britton has also started "talking". She's been saying "ahh" quietly for 2 or 3 days, but yesterday she found her voice and just EXPLODED. Lots of noise, loud screeches, and so on. It was SO cute.