Hello everyone, i am 24 years old and am new to this site we lost our little girl Lexi almost 6 months ago at 23+3 weeks due to incompetent cervix and did not catch it in time to have the cerclage done!! Once we found out that she was not going to make it we had to make the decision to induce ... to finally get us into labour and delivery is was 5 days of us knowing what was coming up We went threw the whole labour process and delivered vaginally and got to spend time with her ... we were advise by our high risk ob to wait 9 months before trying again which we plan too do and as this time gets closer i get more more anxious and just do not know what to expect or how to feel about the whole situation .. and i was just wondering to the people who have gone threw the loss of a baby and then when tried again and got pregnant how did you feel what helped you get threw it and not stress to much over it !? Any input would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
Denise
Hi denise
I lost my first and my pregnancy afterwards was an anxious one , but having a plan helped (stitch and monitoring)and lots of reassurance from midwife and docs and extra listens in etc. Plus never being afraid to ask questions etc or for an extra listen
it got easier with subsequent pregnancies although you still worry
do you have a plan? will they put a stitch in
xx