That's what I've been reading as well. Oh well all I ask for is two more weeks. Hope you make it to term as well. Although I wonder if short, soft and dilated cervix puts me at more risk of preterm labor than someone who has a long, firm and dilated cervix.
Thanks, you too!
From what I understand, the cervix needs to be soft to dilate. I have also read that in first pregnancies, the cervix will efface before it dilates, so it's pretty normal that it would be short as well as dilated. I would think that a long, firm and dilated cervix is less common.
My cervix was 60% effaced last time they checked nearly three weeks ago. I am avoiding any more manual exams unless absolutely necessary.