Hi Tash. Sorry you've had this worrying news hun. We've all been there, and it is scary when you find out your pregnancy might have complications
Firstly Tash, don't panic. Did the midwife say how short is short? A "normal" cervix is usually between 3 and 5cms long at 12wks. Have you had previous surgery on your cervix for any reason? Or does your Mum have a history of incompetent cervix at all? The reasons for a short cervix sometimes determine how well it will hold up under the growing weight of a baby, and will help me to advise on a possible course of action - if indeed you need to act.
A short cervix at this early stage is not usual, BUT neither does is automatically indicate disaster. It is good that they have picked up on it, because most of the ladies here knew nothing of their cervical issues until it was too late to effectively do anything about it.
Until you know how short it is with an internal ultrasound, then it's difficult to say how best to deal with it. Docs take one f two approaches - they either recommend monitoring fortnightly with scans, and if the cervix significantly shortens/opens, then an emergent stitch is placed. Or they place a stitch now before any futher shortening. I personally always recommend a stitch immediately because it is the most effective, and usually does the job, but it is n't always possible to persuade clinicians to agree.
It could also be that by short, your cervix is around the 2/2.5 mark, and was this length before you got pregnant. This may be normal for you, and it might stay closed despite the lack of length. the problem is with a short cervix to start with, is that as the baby grows, and the cervix naturally shortens, as it does in ALL women there is less "room to play with" in a shorter cervix - if that makes sense? There is no real way of predicting this hun, BUT as it stands at the moment, you have options, and something can be done to help. I am still not convinced you have an issue until you have the TVU - it was very bad of the midfwife to scare you like this when you can't do anything for several days.
Over the next few days, try to relax, rest and know that nothing is going to significantly change "cervix-wise" over the next week anyway. A shorter cervix really does not become a problem (if at all) until 16/18 plus weeks. The pains you describe are nothing to do with the cervix hun - it is normal to have these pains, and they can be quite bad as your ligamnets stretch to accomodate the baby. A stressed cervix causes bulging pressure down below, something which wouldn't show itself for several more weeks yet anyway.
Get back in touch if you need any more help - I check in here atleast once per day, and I'm happy to help. x