Chel
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Up until now I've almost always settled Jasper in my arms, so he doesn't cry.
Because money is tight ATM we're renting out one of our rooms, so that we can keep this apartment. Our housemate is perfect, he's quiet and genuinely nice, hes clean, he's even helpful with Jasper from time to time, which is so lovely... and so we're desperate to keep him! If he moves out, we'll have to move also and downsize to a cheaper place, which means either moving into a one room studio in this area or we have to move to a cheaper suburb, which I really dont want to do!
SO in an effort to keep a happy household, I've not let Jasper cry... and now he's 7 weeks old, its time for him to learn to self settle. He's really good at it, we've been doing it today. He cries for about 4-5 minutes and then lays quietly for a minute or two and then drifts off to sleep.
Do you think its a bad idea to make him self settle during the day and then I settle him in my arms at different times? The housemate is an apprentice chef and so he works shifts, so its not even like I can have a routine of when Jasper self settles and when I settle him.
Will he end up confused and upset? I dont want to be inconsistent with him, but I dont want to have to settle him EVERY time he sleeps, nor do I want to lose our housemate!
Because money is tight ATM we're renting out one of our rooms, so that we can keep this apartment. Our housemate is perfect, he's quiet and genuinely nice, hes clean, he's even helpful with Jasper from time to time, which is so lovely... and so we're desperate to keep him! If he moves out, we'll have to move also and downsize to a cheaper place, which means either moving into a one room studio in this area or we have to move to a cheaper suburb, which I really dont want to do!
SO in an effort to keep a happy household, I've not let Jasper cry... and now he's 7 weeks old, its time for him to learn to self settle. He's really good at it, we've been doing it today. He cries for about 4-5 minutes and then lays quietly for a minute or two and then drifts off to sleep.
Do you think its a bad idea to make him self settle during the day and then I settle him in my arms at different times? The housemate is an apprentice chef and so he works shifts, so its not even like I can have a routine of when Jasper self settles and when I settle him.
Will he end up confused and upset? I dont want to be inconsistent with him, but I dont want to have to settle him EVERY time he sleeps, nor do I want to lose our housemate!