Insecurities...

[NotSoWorried]

Ohh girlies

I'm getting really paranoid and insecure over everything to do with my boyfriend. I've always been insecure but now I'm going the whole way. When apparently I should be going the opposite.

He's "bestfriends" with his recent ex, who I'm really madly OTT insecure over. But whenever I see him, she's always texting him. And she doesn't know.

This weekend he's going away to his friends who's at Uni. I know they're just really good friends, but on facebook all she does is say 'gorgeous, babe, love you, miss you' etc. Again, she doesn't know. After asking if he'll be telling her, he answered Probably.

I feel really fat and lumpy and pretty convinced he's going to go off with a slim girl who isn't pregnant.

Anyone else experiencing this?

It's driving me mad, I don't want to mention it because he knows I'm insecure enough and doesn't understand.

 

[nikky0907]

I'm gonna be honest and say it's really out of line. He's going to spend the entire weekend at his ex-girlfriend's place, who by the way in my opinion has some feeling for him?
And what does he mean by 'Probably' telling her. You are having his baby,if they are truly only best friends she should be the first to know (besides his parents of course).

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

I agree with nikky0907, if they really are only just best friends then he should tell her almost straight away. It's a little bit suspicious the way he is behaving, you really need to have a chat with him and explain how you are feeling. Have you ever met his ex? Maybe you could go and meet her with him, see how they react.

Good luck hun, I dont't blame you for feeling that way, i've been in a similar position before and found i had to confront my partner.

Hope this helps.

xoxox

 

[NotSoWorried]

The weekends been prosponed now.

I could never meet her, i'd explode. And by all means, she wouldn't want to mess with a pregnant, hormonal 18year old, right?

I've tried talking to him about situations before, there's loads more but he said I've got to think about his feelings too.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

That's good the weekend's been postponed, gives you more time to work out what to say to your boyfriend.

Well, I can understand you feeling like you'd explode, I would totally do the same but if it's the only way to put your mind at rest, then I would do it. Just have to make sure you can contain any feelings about wanting to throttle her! As you said, she wouldn't want to mess with a pregnant hormonal teenager

Mmm.. it is difficult, but at the end of the day, if you are worried about his loyalty to you, he should understand and put your mind at rest more.

It's really up to you, but I certainly wouldn't let my partner get away with behaving like that.. put your mind at rest!