broody_mama
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Last night, I had an interesting text convo with the father of my children...
He sends me texts daily begging me to go back with him etc, and last night he was saying how he need me to believe in him that he can give up the drink etc cos unless I believe in him and believe he can do it, he won't be able to.
So I replied telling him that if he should be doing it for anyone, it's his kids cos it's them who need him to be a father.
He then replied that he is doing it for them, but obviously I don't know how much I mean to him...and that he needs to talk to me face to face about something I will be angry about.
So I told him to text it to me now as if he were to piss me off in person I don't know what I'll do as he had pushed me to my limit already, plus it would only stress me out wondering what he could have done.
So he sent a text saying until xmas, he had kept a good hold on his drinking...but the thought of facing another xmas without me and DS and bump was too much for him to handle...and got drunk. He then goes on to say how he doesn't know how it happened, but he SLEPT WITH HIS EX! AND NOW SHE IS PREGNANT!!!!!!
I sent a text back saying "oh ****'s devout Jehova Witness parents must be sooo proud of their daughter. Congratulations I suppose!"
He then text me saying he doesnt blame me for being angry at him! I was like...I'm not angry, tbh I don't care!
Am I supposed to be upset by this? Or am I right to not give two shakes of a soggy towel about it? Does he expect me to be a big crying mess about the fact that he is an abusive alcoholic who has got another woman up the duff?
He sends me texts daily begging me to go back with him etc, and last night he was saying how he need me to believe in him that he can give up the drink etc cos unless I believe in him and believe he can do it, he won't be able to.
So I replied telling him that if he should be doing it for anyone, it's his kids cos it's them who need him to be a father.
He then replied that he is doing it for them, but obviously I don't know how much I mean to him...and that he needs to talk to me face to face about something I will be angry about.
So I told him to text it to me now as if he were to piss me off in person I don't know what I'll do as he had pushed me to my limit already, plus it would only stress me out wondering what he could have done.
So he sent a text saying until xmas, he had kept a good hold on his drinking...but the thought of facing another xmas without me and DS and bump was too much for him to handle...and got drunk. He then goes on to say how he doesn't know how it happened, but he SLEPT WITH HIS EX! AND NOW SHE IS PREGNANT!!!!!!
I sent a text back saying "oh ****'s devout Jehova Witness parents must be sooo proud of their daughter. Congratulations I suppose!"
He then text me saying he doesnt blame me for being angry at him! I was like...I'm not angry, tbh I don't care!
Am I supposed to be upset by this? Or am I right to not give two shakes of a soggy towel about it? Does he expect me to be a big crying mess about the fact that he is an abusive alcoholic who has got another woman up the duff?
i would have been the same...not cared. I suppose he convinced himself that you would be devastated?
xx
