africaqueen
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I know it seems a odd question as obviously those of us wanting/having IVF need it to assist in our goal of becoming a mum, but i wondered how many of us have completely no chance of EVER getting pg without IVF?
I see a lot of ladies with unexplained infertility and some where they have tried so long its the next step, but wondered how many women are in my situation of knowing there is no chance whatsoever of ever having a child without IVF? Not even the tiniest chance... I have no tubes and i must admit, today it truly dawned on me, that there is no possible miracle for us... the only way i will ever be a mum to our biological child is if IVF works and its upset me. I have had fertility issues with pcos and hormone issues for yrs and always knew i would struggle before the loss of both our babies an my tubes, but now to know i will never get pregnant unless its done in a lab... its heartbreaking. I am not on a downer, but the dire reality of the situation has really hit home for me and its scary and upsetting and just wanted to knw if anyone else in same/similar situation? xxx
I see a lot of ladies with unexplained infertility and some where they have tried so long its the next step, but wondered how many women are in my situation of knowing there is no chance whatsoever of ever having a child without IVF? Not even the tiniest chance... I have no tubes and i must admit, today it truly dawned on me, that there is no possible miracle for us... the only way i will ever be a mum to our biological child is if IVF works and its upset me. I have had fertility issues with pcos and hormone issues for yrs and always knew i would struggle before the loss of both our babies an my tubes, but now to know i will never get pregnant unless its done in a lab... its heartbreaking. I am not on a downer, but the dire reality of the situation has really hit home for me and its scary and upsetting and just wanted to knw if anyone else in same/similar situation? xxx