A few people on here know that i have a problem with my MIL, shes kinda frightened me away with crazy baby things shes been saying (y'know,the sort of things which makes you think the person has a blurred line between the baby being theirs and it actually being yours). Anyway, im just feeling really protective already!!, and when is here and she starts asking to hold him i know i'll have to let her but its really going to grate on me something awful. Dh and I also agreed that when we're all settled that its important that we still have one date night...(which will be a few hrs at the cinema as we do now). Theres no-one on my side of the family to baby sit, so it all boils down to MIL who will be gagging to do it. How an earth am i going to leave my baby with her for our date?(i said i would, but that was before she came out with all this crazy stuff). How am i going to let go? anyone been like this?. id be fine with FIL(but hes just not into baby sitting) or BIL/SIL(but they lost a baby at 13 weeks when i was 13 weeks, its rubbing it in if we ask them).