is it normal to feel this way?

[heaveneats]

This may sound stupid... But I feel like I will never be able to have a second baby I don't know why I just have a feeling, just like I had feeling this wasn't my month and got a bfn today. With a previous mc and DD I got pg within our first few trys. Now because I know I timed ov right and didn't get pregnant, that that somehow means it will never happen . I know I'm being irrational but I just needed to vent a bit

 

[Magrat]

Hi Heaveneats! I feel like that waaaay too often. We are ttc #1 and it is so scary to look at yet another bfn and wonder if there is sth wrong with us. And then I remind myself that it can take a year even if you are healthy and do everything right...yet I hope we don't have to wait a whole year for that second line to appear you are definitely not alonefx for you!

 

[sammynashley]

Hi Hun I know exactly how you feel, we're trying for #3 and so far it's been 14/15 months and nothing.. Ds was conceived after 7 months, dd was conceived whilst I was on the mini pill so didn't have to try and well this time nothing's happening. So makes me feel pretty crappy



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My Ovulation Chart

 

[heaveneats]

Thanks ladies good to know I'm not alone out there! I'm sorry that some of you have been trying so long. I hate the thought of anyone having to go through that. I'm wondering if I'm just being a little crazy and stressed, I've googled everything pcos and endometriosis but really I'm not even through my first tww. I think I just got lucky with DD and conceived early. Ugh maybe its already time to just sit back do a few opk next cycle but not as intensely

 

[Zephram]

I feel the same! We're on our third cycle of TTC our second and our first was a surprise product of one oopsie (we weren't trying), so I keep freaking out that something is wrong since we didn't conceive again first time around. I hate TTC! I'm going to O in the next few days and I'm feeling so stressed out about getting OH to DTD at the right time in order to be in with a chance. It blows!

 

[heaveneats]

Maybe we all should just agree to throw caution to the since haha.