Jewels
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Is it normal for our other halves to be kinda indifferent when it comes to being excited to have a baby? We've discussed it, and my DH has agreed that we can have a baby, and I know that if he didn't want a baby, he would've definitely told me so.
Yesterday we were at a family get together and somehow we got on the subject of baby names.. Stupid me and my baby fever - I started talking about what we could name our baby when we had one. My niece's husband asked us if we were thinking about starting a family, and my hubby said "I'm not, but she is". Then he went on to joke about how he's gonna get an earful (from me) on the way home and we were all laughing. My niece's husband seemed to think the same way about having kids - just kinda indifferent.
Both my DH and his family are very humorous, sarcastic, and love to tease and joke, so at first I just took it with a grain of salt and told myself that if he really didn't want a baby, we would have told me, because he's a very honest person and tells it like it is.
I've seen him with kids, and he's absolutely great. Every once in a while he'll come home from work and talk about how cute one of his friend's little boy is. I think deep down he wants children, but sometimes he throws me and I'm not sure whether to think he actually wants kids or not! I think I'm probably overreacting as usual and overanalyzing - it is probably just him being a joker.
Isn't this just a typical guy thing?
Yesterday we were at a family get together and somehow we got on the subject of baby names.. Stupid me and my baby fever - I started talking about what we could name our baby when we had one. My niece's husband asked us if we were thinking about starting a family, and my hubby said "I'm not, but she is". Then he went on to joke about how he's gonna get an earful (from me) on the way home and we were all laughing. My niece's husband seemed to think the same way about having kids - just kinda indifferent.
Both my DH and his family are very humorous, sarcastic, and love to tease and joke, so at first I just took it with a grain of salt and told myself that if he really didn't want a baby, we would have told me, because he's a very honest person and tells it like it is.
I've seen him with kids, and he's absolutely great. Every once in a while he'll come home from work and talk about how cute one of his friend's little boy is. I think deep down he wants children, but sometimes he throws me and I'm not sure whether to think he actually wants kids or not! I think I'm probably overreacting as usual and overanalyzing - it is probably just him being a joker.
Isn't this just a typical guy thing?