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Is this really bad?

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Wow how rude was she!!! She had no right to give you her opinion like that NONE at all its none of her darn business.

I know that some BF Mums think theres a certain age Mum should stop and move over to bottle but that too varies and they even change ther minds and really that woman had no right.

Why does your SIL think you should stop? Maybe she sees/hears it if your uncomfortable and one thing you should be is comfortable with your feeding choice but shouldn't be mad uncomfortable for it.

I think when you see that woman again you tell her she was in the wrong and in the future to think before she opens her trap!

:hugs:
 
I don't wanna stop until shes atleast 12months old

There's your answer. You are bringing up your baby girl as you see fit and to hell with everyone else interfering! You're doing a great job, you're happy, Jasmines happy and thats what counts xXx
 
Rita, that woman is wrong to have said that. 1. it is none of her business. 2. it is advised to BF for at least 2 yes TWO years. You feel that baby how ever long you want to. Obviously she wants to keep going, and you do as well. I feel proud of having made it past 6 months, and will be over the moon when I get to 12 months. Please don't let one horriblely rude woman spoil something soooo wonderful between you and your girl.
 
Thanks girls, my SIL thinks because I don't exclusively breast-feed, there is no point carrying on, yes Jasmine does have bottles aswell but thats due to the fact of when I was suffering with exhaustion I couldn't keep BF her, it was too much for me and I was starting to suffer because of it, and since then its just stuck, she only has 3 bottles a day, the rest are BF's.
 
Just because you're combination feeding that doesnt cancel out the benefits of the breast feeds - thats just garbage - you have the best of both worlds! Even if you only BF once a day thats your choice.
 
omg thats just awful of another mother to say thats wrong :? wots right for her and her baby dont mean its right for u and urs hun !!!
its up to u, shes ur baby,if u want to do it and she still wants it, then theres no probs, after all jazzy's still a baby !!
 
My aunty breast fed my cousin until he was 3 years old and there's nothing wrong with him! I only wish I could accomplish what you have,i tried and failed with my youngest son as i'm a big wimp who can't stand pain and the chapped nipples did it for me! Be proud of what you've accomplished, and continuing to breastfeed only builds towards the everlasting bond mother and baby have!

P.S. I intend to be successful on breast feeding with number 3 !
 
Don't listen to them hun. My family bf until 2, although I think i'll only go til 13mths. It's
 
you know whats best for your daughter thats why she is your daughter...no one knows u or ur family better than you..never forget that..:hugs:
 
Tell everyone else to mind their own business and do whats right for u hunny xx
 
I don't get it, what's disgusting about feeding your baby in the most natural and healthy way?!? If that's the way they see it, isn't it more disgusting to be giving the milk from another animal, from a cow's udder??

Anyway, the World Health Organization recommendation for minimum length of BFing is actually 2 years. So 6 months is just the beginning ;)
 
I hate when people get freaked out by breastfeeding. I hope to continue breastfeeding twice a day for as long as my milk supply will let me.
 
it's your baby... you do whatever you want!! xx
 
Don't be silly Rita, be proud!!

:hugs:YES I agree 1000 % You are a great mummy and you should be proud of that. Don't listen to those people
I'm proud to breastfeed my baby whenever and wherever he wants it. I was in the restaurant in a big hotel once when the baby was only 2 weeks old and he was feeding almost every hour. We sat at the table in the middle of the restaurant when he cried for food , and i just lift my top up to feed him. I think the staff was more embarrassed than i was:rofl:
 
What the F has it got to do with her? I just cannot believe some people? If you sat there and said "I cannot believe you're wearing those jeans, I think you look really fat in them", she would be outraged probably, as would half of the other people in the group with you. So what on earth gives her the right to comment on you breastfeeding your child? This has really really irritated me, as you can probably tell! Go tell her to F off!
 
I agree wirh everyone else, bfeeding is really difficult imo so u and all the rest of us bfeeding mummys should be proud, no matter how old the baby/toddler/child.... and if anyone has a problem with that they should be told to f**k off and take their unwanted bulls**t opinions to someone who gives a s**t, i dont know how u managed to control yourself from telling her so!!!!
Well done and keep going for as long as you want hun
 
she's your baby, do what you want not what suits others. Aslong as your comfortable with it f**k what everyone else thinks, thats their problem not yours. x
 

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