Is this really happening to me?

[maccy]

I am new here and was wondering if anyone could help me? I started bleeding on Tues about 5pm I was then taken into hospital as they thought that I may be having an eptopic preg. I was nearly 7 weeks preg. I was loosing clots only very small ones. No cramping. Had every test going then a scan on Wed, they found the sac in the womb but nothing in it. The bleeding had stopped by then. They think it may be too early to tell so I have to go back a week next Fri for another scan to check. They said that the sack was the right size for weeks and that my cervix was closed. They also found a bleed (blood clot) next to the sack and they said that this is possibly where the bleed was coming from and that I would bleed more as there was still blood inside me. Then Wed pm I came home and the bleeding started again I bled all yesterday the same as before but bit heavier mild crampy pains, still have them and the bleed again this morning. My breasts have gone back to normal size and are not painful, I am devastated. Is this really a miscarriage, be honest with me. I am 99% sure that it is gone, I have been so distraught, anyone had anything like this? Please someone give me some advice I am going crazy!

 

[Uvlollypop]

i dont know what to say hun... big hugs.

maybe go to your gp??

 

[cheryl]

When i had a miscarrage at 6 and 1/2 weeks, I was bleeding really heavy and I was in alot of pain, I had loads of small clots in it and the blood was bright red.
I had a scan 2 days later and it was completly gone. Not even a sac.
Hopefully you are ok hun, Just take it easy and rest. Keep your feet up.
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[dizzynic]

hi sorry to hear what you are going through go to a&e or docs to get a referral for another scan its the uncertainty of whats happening thats the worst wishing you best of luck xx

 

[porkpie1981]

Im sorry to hear this

I had a miscarrage but no bleeding as it was a blighted ovum so im no help really.

Definatly get it checked up again (sumtimes you have to push to get this done as im experiencing now with mybe needing another d & C).

Also nothing is for definate and ive read lots of stories of babies surving against the odds. Do u want me to pm ypu te website with all the stories on it so you can read?

 

[maccy]

Yes please hun. x

 

[porkpie1981]

ok will now! You will also see my story there also . There is also stories that look bad but turned out good and ones that turned out bad! It helped me thru my miscarriage to be honest. Let s hope you are one of the sucess stories

 

[bethyb]

when i miscarried at 6 1/2 weeks i had lots of bleeding and passed clots and saw my babys sac.. ive had two miscarriges with the first i had a ERPC. have they tested ur blood to see what ur hg levels are?

 

[sairmare]

I'm really sorry hun. Hope it turns out ok for you xx

 

[shockd&amazed]

Hi sorry to hear you're going through this.
When I had my m'c recently I had scan and there was tiny thing there but too early to see heartbeat etc. I went home and bled much more and knew it had passed.
However, some women bleed loads and it turns out bean is clinging on in there.
I really hope you get good news at your scan on Friday.
x

 

[maccy]

Little bit of update, I am loosing very little only when I go to the toilet. nothing on the pad (sorry if tmi) Still mild pains in the tummy, breasts are back to being sore and full and nausea returned. I am not expecting a good result Fri as I understand that my hormones are all over the place and changes like this can happen. I'm driving myself nuts searching the internet trying to find someone who has exact same symptoms as me! (I know we all do it ) Just having some comments and support is fab though, thanks ladies. :thumpup:

 

[Rumpskin]

Oh darling

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. To have to wait for another scan must be agonising.

My m/c finished within 48 hours of starting so I cannot give you any advice. I am surprised you have to wait for so long.

 

[porkpie1981]

how u feeling at the mo? Is the bleeding the same?

 

[maccy]

No much milder, no need for a pad really. Wrote a quick update above earlier. hope u doin ok too. x

 

[dizzynic]

Hope all goes well for you at your scan x

 

[bethyb]

being totally honest i bled a little before i miscarried which was spotting and then onto a very light bleed and then it all happened -although i already knew it was going to happen as id had a early scan and my babys heartbeat had stopped.
im not saying that is the case with you but some of us dont just bleed and miscarry straight away. I had a erpc in nov which i bled lightly for about a week but this time ive had spotting and alsorts cuz it happened naturally. my breasts were sore too.
saying that im keeping everything crossed for u as lots of women do bleed and go on to have healthy babies at the end of it, the scan will be able to give u the answers u need.
good luck xx

 

[porkpie1981]

welll my bleeding is off and on, just when i wipe tho(but they said last time it should have really have stopped by now). Have the hospital tomorrow so i will find out if i had an infection and if i need the op again(hopefully not).

P.s I hope u are ok

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I hope everything is ok in the end.

ETA: I can't say whether it is or isn't.

 

[sarah_george]

Sorry you are going through this, its really frightening, all I would say is that if you are actually miscarrying you wil know, when I lost mine there wasnt tiny clots there was big ones and I just knew, while theres hope try and stay positive as thats more benficial to both of you! good luck and keep us posted xxx

 

[blondyblueyes]

I know that when i miscarried i did not crap i started spotting and then started bleeding i bled so much and then the decided to do the ultra sound i had miscarried just pray for the best i i hope it all works out