Is your hubby happy about all of the extra sex? ;)

[littlebird28]

Mine isn't! Haha. We've been switching it up, doing it in different parts of the house (TMI!) and that seems to be helping. My girlfriend actually had to wear wigs for her husband to keep things spicy! Anyone have any good tips to share with us ladies tired of planned sex?

 

[jeoestreich]

Well, my husband and I hardly ever see each other. I work during the week and he work weekends. So the extra sex was a bonus, plus we are a super sexual couple. (I know TMI) To add extra spice and varitey, you could do role playing, costumes, add props, different place in the house, try some new positions, hmmmm...that is all I could think of off the top of my head.

 

[littlebird28]

My neighbor told me that her son was conceived while she was in a french maid costume. Haha. We would have sex once a week prior to trying, but 3-4 times a week has gotten a little draining (literally, sometimes!) Does anyone else still do oral? I thought saliva harmed sperm so my husband is very unhappy about this, to say the least!

 

[emz1200]

I've read that saliva harms sperm do my DH isn't getting any oral at all (didn't like doing it anyway lol) but he is happy about all the extra sex we're having. Bless him he's ready & willing at all times lol

 

[Stefie]

Phew! I was beginning to think I was the only one who pleads with my hubby to have sex more than twice a week. When I look back at the beginning of our relationship and how I used to beg him for a break from BD'ing.... We're only 26 and 27, you'd think he'd be in his prime! Oh well, I'm going shopping for some new lingerie and toys today. It's time to spice this TTC up!

Lots of and fun for all of us!!

 

[Popcorn]

Yeah, it's not always easy to get mine into bed! Also, jumping on him every second day and every day during OV is quite a lot...

that's blokes for you, they spend their teens dreaming of sex on tap and when they get it during TCC, it's too much bless 'em!

 

[Scottishgem]

My hubby is definitely happier now, i would say before we only did it once a week if not less, due to different sex drives and the fact that i work as a nightshift manager and my hubby works mon-fri, but since we decided to ttc we have been doing it roughy 3-5 times a week, we make more time for each other now and its brought us so much closer, wed definitely mix it up with nice sex and naughty sex lol

 

[SillyHale]

Mine isn't happy about it either. I got shot down last night. And I've even tried to woo him and do extra fun things to spice it up, but when it's not happening, it's not happening. So I was quite let down. And we still do oral, I've heard that saliva kills sperm but we just can't cut that out because it helps get him in the mood. I think DH would be happy with sex just on Sundays. Boo on him, he's only 30! Viagra is obviously in our future

 

[Stefie]

Mine isn't happy about it either. I got shot down last night. And I've even tried to woo him and do extra fun things to spice it up, but when it's not happening, it's not happening. So I was quite let down. And we still do oral, I've heard that saliva kills sperm but we just can't cut that out because it helps get him in the mood. I think DH would be happy with sex just on Sundays. Boo on him, he's only 30! Viagra is obviously in our future

Are we living the same life? I heard the same thing about saliva being bad for his little fighters, but it almost always turns a "no" into a "hell yes."

 

[mmlovepink]

my oh doesnt like the extra sex. in fact i think he tries to avoid it. we dont have much time anymore and he's always busy so even having sex once a week is impossible.
in terms of spicing things up, we do perform oral on each other (sorry tmi) but i always wipe away any saliva before we have sex because apparently it kills sperm.

im hoping to discover some tricks to getting him into bed more often lol

x

 

[sue_88]

We toned it down a little ..... :-/ I'm a morning sex person, he's evening so working the same hours means we were twice a day, every day. But we've agreed to tone it down during ovulation to boost the sperm.............and it's killing me!!!!! haha I have to try keep myself busy on the 'no sex' days or i think my head will explode !!

 

[SillyHale]

Stefie...Too funny! Oral is definitely my "go to" tool to try and sway DH. If I get a no tonight though I'm throwing on some porn haha!! All last night I dreamt of how to get sex because I just got my pos opk, so I'm definitely getting some tonight!

mmlovepink... If you find some tricks that work send them my way

 

[Stinas]

hahaha omg I thought I was the only one!!
My DH was happy about it at the start, but he works a lot, so when he gets home at 3am, he is not in the mood, but bless his soul...he still lets me have my way!

 

[littlebird28]

Haha. Too funny! My husband is DESPERATE for a BJ. I even overheard him during his "dude night" in our family room telling his buddies how much he misses oral. That's just depressing! I might have to surprise him. Im SURE many a baby has been conceived post BJ, so I probably shouldn't fret about it too much!

 

[2bmommy]

My husband waits for it when I get home from work! He texts me asking me if were doing it ... I say yes...and he's ready in bed for me. Hes loving it!

 

[FreeSpirit]

My husband loves it. Its actually making things even better!

 

[jeoestreich]

With us, by only having sex every other day, it is actually less sex for us. Like I said either, we are really sexual people.