It happened again

cerilou

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Hi ladies

I had my 1st mc almost 6 weeks ago. I was just 6 weeks pregnant. I got several :bfp: last week and was ecstatic but also very nervous that the same might happen again. And it did. I got a :bfn: on a CB digital yesterday. Went to the dr who seemed confused as to how I got pregnant so quickly. He wanted to send me to the EPAU but they told him there would be little point as they couldn't date me and if I'd had a negative test, then to let nature take its course. To be honest, I didn't want to go back there as they did nothing for me last time. The dr has advised me to give my body a rest and try again after a cycle or two.

So after a day of crying, thinking about what might have been and eating my body weight in chocolate, I am going to sort myself out. Signing up to a new gym tonight and going to invest as much time as I can with my dd and OH. Time to get on with my life and not get too bogged down with ttc. I do want another baby and will see how my next couple of cycles go and take it from there.

I have had so much support of BNB and don't know what I would have done without you all.

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:hugs:i'm so sorry,i know how deflating it is,but you've got the right attitude and i hope it happens for you soon xxxx
hope to see you back here with a :bfp: soon x
 
Oh hun, im so sorry, i can imagine how hard this must be for you.
Taking a little break sounds like a good idea, just to let yourself pull together emotionally. Its harder than we give ourself credit for. :hugs:
 
So sorry hunn :hugs::hugs::hugs: words cant take away the pain you are feeling just now so i wont even try. Thinking of you and good luck if you do decide to try again in the future.


:hug:

Claire
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Oh hun, massive :hugs: for you and your family and spending time with your family sounds like a great idea xxx :hug:
 
So so sorry:hugs: I too miscarried at 6 weeks (just 5days ago) and i know how hard it is. My dr has also told me to wait a while and give my body a chance and i also know how hard that is! Desparation for a baby sometimes takes over but i too am terrified the next time i conceive i will mc again too. I truly hope things get better and you get a sticky one soon xx
 
I'm sorry to read this hun

*hugs to you*

x

Went to the dr who seemed confused as to how I got pregnant so quickly
Maybe suggest him going back to medical school! Silly man.
 
Oh god honey, I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. It is absolutely heartbreaking, I know. I so hope things work out for you soon hun - sending lots of hugs over to you. If you ever need someone to talk too, feel free to PM me anytime xx
 
So so sorry hun - sending :hug::hug::hug: and so sorry this has happened again. Thining of you :hug:
 
Sorry honey, sending you lots of hugs at this sad time.....

You WILL come through it:hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
I just wanted to say how sorry i am that this is happening to you a second time. It was hard enough when i had one MC, i can't imagine how hard it must be to have two. Sending you lots of :hugs:
 

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