It happened!

[maccy]

Well ladies all my waiting for my natural miscarriage and it happened. Yesterday I woke up with period pains and noticed that the blood was thickening, then at about 11am I passed a clot bout the size of a 50p, then the flood gates opened. I had some stronger pains but they were ok and I passed another clot bout the size of small tangerine, then continues like this till 2:00am this morning, I did pass a couple of huge clots and lots of blood (sorry if this is too much info but need to know if it's ok) was loosing lots and lots of clots and had to go to the toilet every 20 mins to pass them, I was quite frightened at times but at hubby there with me. Don't know if the sac came out cause I got fed up of fishing it out of the toilet and as I had a blighted ovum it was empty anyway, I didn't know what it should have looked like cause there were times when I thought that could have been it but wasn't sure and the internet was off yesterday so could ask you ladies. Last night at around 11:30pm I started feeling faint and hubby wanted to take me in but I knew I was just exhausted, this morning I awoke still not quite with it but my mum came round to take dd to school and I went back to bed to sleep, now I've come round, I feel better, still drained but better and the clots have eased off. What an horrendous experience, I don't regret my decision to do it naturally one bit and can now empathise fully with every one of you ladies that had gone through this awful experience. xxx

 

[golcarlilly]

Hiya hun was just thinking of you this morning - so glad the wait is finally over for you, although I had the medical mgt your experience sound exactly like mine, I lost a lot of blood and like you had to keep going to the toilet to pass clots, they gave me a bedpan to put over the toilet when I was in hospital but when i came home everything went down the loo, it is such an upsetting and distressing experience and I wish that someone had explained what would happen fully to me beforehand! hopefully our posts will help others?

You just get lots of rest and don't try and be brave and do too much in the way of housework, childcare etc... ( i am always guilty of that!) get plenty of help wherever you can.

 

[TashaAndBump]

 

[Happy]

I miscarried naturally this afternoon and it was the most frightening thing I have ever been through. I passed quite a few clots and I had the most terrible period panins for about an hour and finally a very large clot came out. My cramps have gone now but i'm still getting small clots and bleeding. I have never experienced this before and i'm sorry if this is a bit graffic but how do you know everything has come away?

 

[momandpeanut]

 

[Newt]

Im sorry, I don't know what to say

 

[Vickie]

So sorry that you had to go through this and for your loss.

 

[WW1]

I'm really sorry you've had to go through this. Thank you for sharing your experiences though - although I hate what I've got to face, at least I know what to expect.

Big x

 

[maccy]

I miscarried naturally this afternoon and it was the most frightening thing I have ever been through. I passed quite a few clots and I had the most terrible period panins for about an hour and finally a very large clot came out. My cramps have gone now but i'm still getting small clots and bleeding. I have never experienced this before and i'm sorry if this is a bit graffic but how do you know everything has come away?

Ah hun, it's awful init? Mine have eased right off today prob only passed bout 5 all day but still heavy bleeding. I have a follow up apt in a week and a bit with the clinic to check that it all has come away. Do you have a follow up apt arranged?

 

[icculcaz]

hugs to you both.x. i know what ur goin thru.xxx

 

[Happy]

Ah hun, it's awful init? Mine have eased right off today prob only passed bout 5 all day but still heavy bleeding. I have a follow up apt in a week and a bit with the clinic to check that it all has come away. Do you have a follow up apt arranged?

No they never said anything about it at the hospital today. They and my doctors have been useless since i started bleeding. I was thinking of ringing the doctor tomorrow and making an appointment.

My bleeding has slowed down now although there are still some smaller clots coming away. How are you doing?

 

[porkpie1981]

to both of you. Please try and rest as much as u can

 

[Carley]

The only way to know is to go for a scan hunny.

 

[niknaknat]

 

[maccy]

No they never said anything about it at the hospital today. They and my doctors have been useless since i started bleeding. I was thinking of ringing the doctor tomorrow and making an appointment.

My bleeding has slowed down now although there are still some smaller clots coming away. How are you doing?

I'm ok, sobbed my heart out last night, think it just all hit me like a ton of bricks, it's been four weeks from start to finish and I've been so stressed and worried about the actual event, that when it finished I just couldn't be consoled. The bleeding as eased although still there like first/second day of AF no more clots, THANK GOD!!!!! found that the hardest. Head is banging and the odd pain in my stomach and utterly exhausted and weak but getting there. Big to you hun, how you today? Def ring the Dr for a follow up, you have to know if everything has come away. xxx

 

[Happyabi]

Lots of love to you all...
Its really good that you have been so open as it will help others to know what to expect as its scarey if you havent been through it before

Abi xxx

 

[Mamafy]

 

[lily24]

Thats so sad for all you ladies who have gone through this horrible time..

You all sound so strong even though you have been through so much, i cant imagine what you all must be going through

 

[maccy]

Lots of love to you all...
Its really good that you have been so open as it will help others to know what to expect as its scarey if you havent been through it before

Abi xxx

Thats why I wrote it all down, I spent weeks scouring the internet trying to find out how it all happens, what it will be like and if anyone had been through the same or similar to me, so if I can help anyone by sharing my story then I will. x

 

[Happy]

Well I went to the doctors this morning and I hd the usual response and a quick 5 minute appointment. She said when I go back to have my blood taken tomorrow they will phone me tomorrow with the results and from that they can tell if everything has come away.

I've got serious constipation now (sorry if TMI) so I think this is causing the pain now, i'm not passing as many clots either so i hope this is the end of it.