Its Actually Happening

[WaitingForYou]

Hey all, im new to this. So hey ha.

Im 18 found out last weekend im expecting, really excited as a couple months ago I miscarried very early in the pregnancy. Me and my OH were really upset and disapointed as its something I have wanted since I have been young for various reasons. Me & OH have been together for nearly a year now, very strong relationship, more like best friends than anything. He's happy about this, we reckon were about 5 weeks now, got midwife next week. Were in a long distance relationship half way up the country, but its perfect. Were both excited and were both just waiting now.

Only problem is telling my mum and dad, his mum and dad have been waiting grandkids for ages now, and have even asked both my OH and his sister how long its gonna take, so they will be chuffed about it. Its just my parents, my mum got pregnant with my eldest sister aged 17 and gave birth to her 2 days before her 18. Im so scared to tell them both, I know my mum is going to flip. Me and my Oh are gonna do it when were together again next week after the midwife then off to his to tell his family.

How am I gonna do this, possibly the scariest day of my life...

Arghhhh!!!

 

[Serene123]

Tell them as soon as you can. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.
Congratulations!

 

[AppleBlossom]

Congrats hun

 

[mBLACK]

Congratulations! I agree just tell them, blurt it out if you have to, otherwise it will continue to get harder and harder and you won't end up telling them.

 

[WaitingForYou]

Yeah gonna tell next week, if I dont chicken out. So scary. My mum waited till 7 months to tell anyone with her first pregnancy, I dont think ill wait that long. LOL!!!

 

[polo_princess]

Tell them as soon as you can. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

Deffo!!

But welcome and congrats!!

 

[leeanne]

Best wishes!

 

[WaitingForYou]

Thanks all you lovelies.

 

[dizzy65]

better to do it fast than later on, in the long run they will be happier u didnt try n hide it from them! good luck and congrats on the baby! and i am 18 also

 

[Sparky0207]

Definitely better just to get it out the way. You never know, you may be pleasantly suprised with their reaction!

Good luck and congratulations

xx

 

[Blob]

Just what everyone else says and Congrats and Welcome!! Good Luck!!

 

[mrscookie]

wow congrats. Have a H&H MONTHS!
Are you planning on moving in together?

 

[WaitingForYou]

Well my mum and dad aren't gonna want a baby here, so i think end of July i'm off to move in with him and his parents. Then when we've got stuff sorted place of our own (probably a couple months after baby arrives around January/February). Both jobless at the moment though, and he doesn't want me to work while pregnant, he's in gear to get a job badly though, applying for anything and everything. Bless him.

 

[maybebaby]

Congratulations!!

 

[WaitingForYou]

Thankyouuuuu

 

[Becky]

Congratulations!! were around the same sorta age

x

 

[Mummy2B1806]

You should definately tell them asap, they need to know and as the other girls have said they may surprise you, your mum was a young mum herself and should be able to relate. Good luck hun x

Keep us posted

 

[WaitingForYou]

Yeah telling next week, I only found out on the 24th May coincidently my mums birthday...how flipping ironic!!!

 

[vicky9207]

congrates n welcome 2 bnb and i hope u have a healthy n happy preg n gud luck

 

[Elli21]

I found i was pregnant on my mums birthday too...weird huh? lol

Congratulations. And i agree with what everyone said...i told my mum and dad seconds after i told my OH. My OH was ready to jump out the window coz he thought they were gunna go mental lol. But they didnt.