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Belle2528
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I asked a week or so about when I should tell my best friend that I'm pregnant as she's started IVF and didn't want to be insensitive. After much consideration (and advice from my mum and your lovely selves) I told her. Explained I was telling her as wanted her to know and understand. She said she understood why I was telling her early and that she was happy for us.
Since then she doesn't speak to me properly, just texts me all the time saying 'I'm fed up of everything, sick of people talking about babies etc. I'm not completely insensitive and knew that it wouldn't be the easiest news for her.
But I can't help but feel a little let down. She's not asked me once if I'm ok (we were told we'd never have a child naturally so this is a pure miracle!). I realise that isn't easy to ask but it wasn't so long ago the roles were reversed. The thing that hurts the most is that we were denied IVF as we didn't fit the criteria. As that happened, she found out she'd had her NHS IVF funding accepted and I did nothing but support her even though deep down I was distraught. I cried at home every night. Yet I still made sure she was ok.
Sorry for the huge rant. Just feel a little down and don't know who to speak to
Belle xx
Since then she doesn't speak to me properly, just texts me all the time saying 'I'm fed up of everything, sick of people talking about babies etc. I'm not completely insensitive and knew that it wouldn't be the easiest news for her.
But I can't help but feel a little let down. She's not asked me once if I'm ok (we were told we'd never have a child naturally so this is a pure miracle!). I realise that isn't easy to ask but it wasn't so long ago the roles were reversed. The thing that hurts the most is that we were denied IVF as we didn't fit the criteria. As that happened, she found out she'd had her NHS IVF funding accepted and I did nothing but support her even though deep down I was distraught. I cried at home every night. Yet I still made sure she was ok.
Sorry for the huge rant. Just feel a little down and don't know who to speak to
Belle xx