Breeelizabeth
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Hey ladies. Don't know what I'm looking for by posting this but I have so much to get off my chest and have no one to talk too.
I live with my dad, and he's a wonderful, supportive, hardworking man who I love dearly but lately he's been making me feel like I'm a total burden on him. He works 14 hour days and at the moment I'm not working. He gets extremely cranky when I don't do house work which I can understand but today I didn't wash the dishes and all hell broke loose. I think he thinks that I sit on my bum all day or am just lazy but the truth is today I went to the midwives, cleaned my room and slept because I had been up since 2am when he went to work. Plus I've been chasing up work. I can understand getting cranky if I didn't do housework for days and let it pile up but it's one day. I'm also studying for my end of year uni exams so that's taking up my time too.
He told me tonight that I shouldn't bother eating his food and that he would have to starve because I'm not allowed to cook so he won't get any food either. Which has pretty much broken me mentally, I don't have a dollar to my name at the moment because of all the things that are going on so I can't afford to go and buy myself food. But I also feel awful and like a waste of space because he won't get to eat and I know he works hard.
I'm also so upset that my little girl will be born to a person like me who contributes nothing and who is a burden to everyone around her.
I'm sorry for the long rant but it's all just getting too much right now.
I live with my dad, and he's a wonderful, supportive, hardworking man who I love dearly but lately he's been making me feel like I'm a total burden on him. He works 14 hour days and at the moment I'm not working. He gets extremely cranky when I don't do house work which I can understand but today I didn't wash the dishes and all hell broke loose. I think he thinks that I sit on my bum all day or am just lazy but the truth is today I went to the midwives, cleaned my room and slept because I had been up since 2am when he went to work. Plus I've been chasing up work. I can understand getting cranky if I didn't do housework for days and let it pile up but it's one day. I'm also studying for my end of year uni exams so that's taking up my time too.
He told me tonight that I shouldn't bother eating his food and that he would have to starve because I'm not allowed to cook so he won't get any food either. Which has pretty much broken me mentally, I don't have a dollar to my name at the moment because of all the things that are going on so I can't afford to go and buy myself food. But I also feel awful and like a waste of space because he won't get to eat and I know he works hard.
I'm also so upset that my little girl will be born to a person like me who contributes nothing and who is a burden to everyone around her.
I'm sorry for the long rant but it's all just getting too much right now.