Aw sweetie im so sorry your going through this. I know how you feel after my m/c in oct my oh never spoke to me and was being very very cruel to about it. So i left as he was making the whole thing 100 times worse. After 3 weeks i popped round to see his mum and he was there. He was being ever so nice to me. Later that night he asked me to talk and he told me he cant forgive him self for how he treated me. He was looking very thin an pale and looked like he had been giving himself a really hard time. He said he just didnt know how to cope about it all. And i just said to him i cant forget how you treated me but i can forgive you. I had to forgive him as i had been reading alot about how men act differently to women as always but more so after a m/c. I too told him how i felt. I told him he had treated me like sh** in the only time in my life when i was beating my self up the most. I didnt want to be on my own with the grief but i was ready an was starting to grieve on my own with out him.
Sweetie it can be done, but i truly hope you dont have to go through this horrible thing alone. Its really not fair that he is being so bad to you by not talking but thats what men do. They blame them selfs, aswel as women blame themselfs.
Your not alone though on here everyone will listen and try to help as much as they can. Its not your fault at all. I hate to think your in such terrible misery. As i know i was. Please dont blame your self sweetie.
If it wasnt for the support and kind words from ladies on here im not so sure i would have found the strenghth to cope in such a terrible time.
Take care of your self sweetie.
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