Hi obe, to be honest I didn't find her very helpful at the first appointment and my DH felt the same. She didn't really go through options at that stage, but just ran through possible tests (she mentioned the laparoscopy test but said unless there was an indication of endo she didn't think we'd need to do it) and kind of mentioned about when there's no cause for the problem people often end up going for IVF. I hope she mentions other options this time. I'm definitely going to tell her my concerns about lack of EWCM this time. Unfortunately I don't think theres a magic pill they can give to help create it, but I think they can give robitussin (or something like that) in pill form. Its the same stuff that's in expectorant cough medicine to loosen bodily fluids and apparently it can be prescribed in pill form, but not sure whether thats something that FS's are concerned with or whether they would just dismiss that.
I've read a lot about IUI though and apparently its a good thing to try in cases where everything is fine other than lack of fertile cervical fluid, so I'm kind of pinning my hopes on that. I just wanted to find out the procedure about referral for it and whether you can actually request it if you're paying. Does anyone know???
obe, would be really interested to know how your follow up goes - will you keep us posted? Good luck. x