Hi there,
I have also downgraded to NTNP. I was hardcore into charting, OPKs, etc., but lost our first baby last month. My DH and I have decided that we are going to take a more relaxed approach this time around, mainly because we just don't want to put all of our energy and emotion into it again, given what we know can happen. I'm scared it will happen again and I will have to go though that pain again... So once we start back up, it will be very relaxed and if it happens, it happens.
On a side note: I know MANY women who were putting all their energy into TTC without luck... And once they became more relaxed about it, boom, they became pregnant. I support your decision, whatever it is.
Heather
I have also downgraded to NTNP. I was hardcore into charting, OPKs, etc., but lost our first baby last month. My DH and I have decided that we are going to take a more relaxed approach this time around, mainly because we just don't want to put all of our energy and emotion into it again, given what we know can happen. I'm scared it will happen again and I will have to go though that pain again... So once we start back up, it will be very relaxed and if it happens, it happens.
On a side note: I know MANY women who were putting all their energy into TTC without luck... And once they became more relaxed about it, boom, they became pregnant. I support your decision, whatever it is.
Heather
. I lost at 10 weeks). I had started getting a little crazy about it around month 4...started checking CM and using a calender to chart OV. I have an extremely regular period- 26 to 27 days on the dot...except last month when I was 5 days late. We thought 
but 
showed her ugly face around 4 AM on day 5 
and I just lost it. I had joined the forums about a week before all this happened, btw (but I have been reading on it for a few months now).
