I've given up

[JasmineFrame]

im seriously beyond depressed about not getting pregnant and ive just given up hope that I will ever be pregnant again. It took freaking 7 weeks for me to even get AF back after my D&C and than now my periods aren't regular anymore. Maybe im just not ment to have a 2nd child. the OPKs aren't working my husband keeps saying it will happen but I just don't think it will at all. Sorry for venting but I don't have anyone talk to about this. A girl on here who I was private messaging who was in the same boat as me is now pregnant and although I want to be happy for her im just sad for myself. there are so many people who are pregnant around me and every time I find out someone else is pregnant it literally kills me.

 

[Peanut112]

I'm honestly in the same boat! Hang in there, there is still hope for us... I know its easier said than done, but try not to stress. Everything happens for a reason.

 

[danser55]

It is miserable and can be upsetting. I'm trying to focus a bit on each day, something to look forward to today to keep me enjoying today instead what I (we) desperately want- a baby. I also try to think each day is one day closer to holding a healthy baby in my arms. It's so hard I know. Sending you so many hugs.

 

[ser523]

Aww, honey, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way! It's definitely understandable. *hugs* I know it's tough, but try to relax. Stressing never helps. Have you consulted your doctor about your concerns at all? I know my cycles were wonky for a while after two mc's last year.

 

[Dollybird]

Jasmine I feel exactly the same. I had a mmc and d&c away back in April at 9+5. Took over 8 weeks for af to return and now I have a luteal phase defect! My due date has been and gone and I feel like I've lost all hope. Just feel like it's not meant to be for me. xxx

 

[JasmineFrame]

Aww, honey, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way! It's definitely understandable. *hugs* I know it's tough, but try to relax. Stressing never helps. Have you consulted your doctor about your concerns at all? I know my cycles were wonky for a while after two mc's last year.

yea I have an appointment scheduled for the 28th of this month with my doctor but I think im done

 

[Ltweety]

Girls,
Don't give up. I have at times felt the same way but if we got pregnant once, we can do it again. My best friend had two miscarriages and then a healthy pregnancy a year after her 2nd. When you look at the fact that this child you create is going to be with you forever, what is one more year? I am in the same boat, this last loss I just didn't see how it would be possible to go through another 8 months before I got pregnant again, but I refuse to let myself think that way. We must pick ourselves up and truck on!

 

[Trying4first1]

Hey ladies
I know exactly how you feel. I had my second loss in April which I had a D and C for. Each month is heartbreaking. But you will get there. I got my BFP yesterday, 9 cycles after the procedure. I totally wasn't expecting it and am still in denial. Every month I felt depressed and even now I have another BFP I can't be completely over the moon as I am so scared. So I guess what I am trying to say is that the worrying never stops. I think taking things one day at a time when ttc is the best way

 

[maxina]

im seriously beyond depressed about not getting pregnant and ive just given up hope that I will ever be pregnant again. It took freaking 7 weeks for me to even get AF back after my D&C and than now my periods aren't regular anymore. Maybe im just not ment to have a 2nd child. the OPKs aren't working my husband keeps saying it will happen but I just don't think it will at all. Sorry for venting but I don't have anyone talk to about this. A girl on here who I was private messaging who was in the same boat as me is now pregnant and although I want to be happy for her im just sad for myself. there are so many people who are pregnant around me and every time I find out someone else is pregnant it literally kills me.

I do not know how to tell you this because i am also here....but do not give up. Maybe you can jus take a break from all this TTC lingo but dont give up! You never know, maybe in the break comes the solution.
Praying for you gal...

 

[JasmineFrame]

thank you all so much for your words of uplift, AF finally came I think my cycles have now lengthened to 34 days from 28 after my D&C I told my husband how I was feeling and he said well we will just have sex everyday than I guess till we have a baby

 

[Tasha S.]

Hi ladies! First off, I'm so sorry for your losses. I know how much it hurts. Jasmine, if you're looking to regulate (or shorten) your cycles, Fertilitea from fairhaven health (Google it ) did the trick for me when I was in your shoes. I got pregnant on the 6th cycle post miscarriage (felt like an eternity!), which was the first month using that tea. I used it again when I wanted to conceive again and I fell pregnant that cycle. I've recommended it to friends and it helped for most of them! Hang in there hun, you'll get your rainbow!! Xxx

 

[JasmineFrame]

Hi ladies! First off, I'm so sorry for your losses. I know how much it hurts. Jasmine, if you're looking to regulate (or shorten) your cycles, Fertilitea from fairhaven health (Google it ) did the trick for me when I was in your shoes. I got pregnant on the 6th cycle post miscarriage (felt like an eternity!), which was the first month using that tea. I used it again when I wanted to conceive again and I fell pregnant that cycle. I've recommended it to friends and it helped for most of them! Hang in there hun, you'll get your rainbow!! Xxx

where can you get the Tea?

 

[Tasha S.]

Hi ladies! First off, I'm so sorry for your losses. I know how much it hurts. Jasmine, if you're looking to regulate (or shorten) your cycles, Fertilitea from fairhaven health (Google it ) did the trick for me when I was in your shoes. I got pregnant on the 6th cycle post miscarriage (felt like an eternity!), which was the first month using that tea. I used it again when I wanted to conceive again and I fell pregnant that cycle. I've recommended it to friends and it helped for most of them! Hang in there hun, you'll get your rainbow!! Xxx

where can you get the Tea?

Online! If you live in the US, you can order from fairhavenhealth.com.