IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[MoBaby]

I'm sorry it's over no chance. It can wait b/c your baby looks like it went around 7 weeks. It's not in your tube and you have no signs of distress. You could ask for a repeat in a week to confirm what is happening but your dr will tell you it's over. If you feel better waiting then I'd ask for a repeat.maybe they can do one Wednesday when you go in?

 

[MrsC8776]

Honey~ I am so very sorry. I'm angry and sad for you. They shouldn't have left you in limbo like this. I find it very unprofessional that they wouldn't say a word to you about what they saw. What Mo said is what I was thinking this morning when I first saw your post. Is there any way your husband can come back home early? When is he suppose to be home?

Mo~ I just wanted to thank you for your honesty with Honey. With your experience I was hoping you would be able to tell what was going on.

Kathy~ I'm so glad everything went well for you. Fx for good results.

I'll try to catch up a little more later today. Thinking of you all.

 

[GettingBroody]

Honey - We are all here for you if you need us

Mo - ^^ wss ^^

 

[honeycheeks]

Thanks Mo and MrsC. Yours have been the most honest and comforting words I got today though its not the best news. Im so grateful that you are being honest. I was expecting baby to look bigger too when I first went in but then Im not a pro so I wouldn't know. So would d&c be my next step. I hope I could have a natural miscarriage if possible. DH is home and its midnight here right now. I can't seem to fall asleep. We will only go in on Wednesday I guess. Whatever's got to happen has happened. So it wouldn't matter making an emergency appointment. Will try and get some sleep.

 

[Mamali]

Honey am so sorry for what you are going through. Some people are just insensitive, leaving you in the dark like that not explaining things, and knowing fully well that you sensed something was wrong and so unprofessional of them. You are in my thoughts and prayers dear .

Kathy glad your biopsy went well, wish you all the best.

 

[honeycheeks]

Thanks so much Mamali and everyone else for being so supportive. What hurt most was their insensitive attitude. Anyways I don't think much of it now. All that matters is that we lost our precious baby. We are trying to make our last days with baby memorable though we already know he is long gone. I wish I could carry him within me forever. I know that's silly but I do really wish. We had planned so much of our baby's life but he is never going to live them. I am really glad we got to experience our little baby and being pregnant for the brief time that we were. He was our biggest blessing and we love our little blueberry.

 

[azlissie]

Honey, I am so sorry that you were treated that way at your appointment, and I'm terribly sorry that you got bad news.

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

That's fantastic! Fx'd the results will be just as good! When will you hear?

Morning Getting....they said by this Friday I should hear the results...Just praying all is well! I need to start pronto because I am going to go crazy with all these delays!

How is Ms. Fia doing?

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

Honey...I am so sorry my love

 

[CDysart]

Honey- I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you in this extremely difficult time. I pray that God blesses you with another little miracle as soon as you are ready.

Kathy - I pray all is well and you get to start soon!

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

Thank you CD

Mamali...how are you feeling? it's getting closer!!! So excited for you!

 

[Dis3tnd]

Honey, I've been very poor at following the thread I just want you to know how horribly sad I am for you. Its so painful when you have an uneventful pregnancy with no signs of anything being wrong. It scares me so much. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

 

[Stinas]

Honey - I am sooo sorry this is happening to you. I know how you feel because I was there before. I just dont understand how they didnt tell you right away.


Kathy - I hope there are no more delays and you get your cycle moving along!


No news here. Starting to show a little. I go wed for a cervical check....I am hoping they can tell me a more definite guess on the genders. I am getting antsy.

 

[Chris_25]

Hi ladies I have to catch up with everyone. Hope your all doing well!

As for me I am triggering tonight as ER will be on Wednesday! I'm so very nervous. Anyway, how long did your dh hold in his sperm for before ER? He has not ejaculated since last Wednesday. The nurse said we can have sex tonight but I'm too scared that it's way too close. I don't want it to be too far either. Ah so is it okay if we don't have sex and he gives his sample after 1 week of abstinence?

 

[MoBaby]

My clinic says 48 hours but no more than 4 days...DH and I figured out that 60 hours was the optimal time for the most sperm. If its been since last wednesday he needs to ejaculate tonight if EC is wednesday.

 

[Chris_25]

Honey I am so sorry! . You are in my prayers xo

 

[Chris_25]

My clinic says 48 hours but no more than 4 days...DH and I figured out that 60 hours was the optimal time for the most sperm. If its been since last wednesday he needs to ejaculate tonight if EC is wednesday.

Shit now I'm freaking out! I am going to have to have sex now then I guess but that's less than 48 hours ugh

I am making dh go do his thing right now (I'm in too much pain for sex) which will be exactly 36 hours before ER. I hope this will be ok.

 

[MoBaby]

That's perfectly fine . If dh had low sperm count then it would be different but there are usually a surplus of those things lol. If the sample looks low the clinic will so icsi anyways unless you are already doing so and then it doesn't matter

 

[Chris_25]

That's perfectly fine . If dh had low sperm count then it would be different but there are usually a surplus of those things lol. If the sample looks low the clinic will so icsi anyways unless you are already doing so and then it doesn't matter

Thanks so much for easing my mind! Lol they said if it came down to needing ICSI they would do it.
Have you or anyone else ever taken destonix? I started taking it tonight to prevent ohss because I've had it once before.

 

[MoBaby]

no. ive never been close to ohss but ive seen others on it.