***January Jellybeans***~ 35 BABY GIRLS & 23 BABY BOYS BORN ~***

[naomicourt]

Excellent news Sar! So glad everything is going well now.

To multi quote you just click on the "+ sign next to quote and then click quote on the last one.

I have almost finished all of my christmas shopping just two more presents to get. Think I might start wrapping them all this weekend and I need to decorate the christmas cake. I am soooo tempted to put the decs up but hubby wont let me until the 1st. I just love christmas! lol and found out today that Tony (My husband) wont be working Christmas day!!

 

[jojo-m]

Sar thats great news!!! Its all working out well, and you deserve it to as well from the last few weeks you've had!

I so wish I knew how to do multi posts too, i've instantly forgot what I wanted to say to everyone else

Its so weird, last week I was worried about movements because little lady was barely moving and just assumed it was because she was running out of room and then this week, especially last couple of days she's more active than ever!

Can't remember who was asking about c-section and bonding but I think the only time it might be difficult is if section is emergency so GA is used and then baby is sent to SCBU, you wouldn't get skin to skin time then but in a planned section that won't happen! I imagine its a lovely experience! There was nothing lovely about trying to push my son out, I was so out of it with the morphine and vomiting that when he came out I couldn't hold him for long because my arms were shaking and I felt like I was going to drop him! I'd request a section if that were possible

JMS I get loads of backache and winge constantly, how bloody uncomfy is everything!!!? I'm in agony in uni, the chairs there are not made for pregnant women! x

 

[LittleMrs]

Jojo - don't think any chairs are made fo pregnant women.

This is a weird question but does anyone else get bum ache when they've been sat down for a while? From about 3 months in, whenever I sit down for a long time it feels like I've bruised my bum bone. Weird, huh?

 

[naomicourt]

Sar thats great news!!! Its all working out well, and you deserve it to as well from the last few weeks you've had!

I so wish I knew how to do multi posts too, i've instantly forgot what I wanted to say to everyone else

Its so weird, last week I was worried about movements because little lady was barely moving and just assumed it was because she was running out of room and then this week, especially last couple of days she's more active than ever!

Can't remember who was asking about c-section and bonding but I think the only time it might be difficult is if section is emergency so GA is used and then baby is sent to SCBU, you wouldn't get skin to skin time then but in a planned section that won't happen! I imagine its a lovely experience! There was nothing lovely about trying to push my son out, I was so out of it with the morphine and vomiting that when he came out I couldn't hold him for long because my arms were shaking and I felt like I was going to drop him! I'd request a section if that were possible

JMS I get loads of backache and winge constantly, how bloody uncomfy is everything!!!? I'm in agony in uni, the chairs there are not made for pregnant women! x

That isn't always the case as I had an emergency section and as I had an epidural I didn't need to have a general. Eloise was given a quick check over and then was given to me and was latched on when I was in recovery.

 

[naomicourt]

Jojo - don't think any chairs are made fo pregnant women.

This is a weird question but does anyone else get bum ache when they've been sat down for a while? From about 3 months in, whenever I sit down for a long time it feels like I've bruised my bum bone. Weird, huh?

Yes, I get that too. Sometimes my whole bum goes numb! lol

 

[hodbert]

Hey Ladies

Yey to Sar for your results and Naomi that ur hubby will be home on Xmas! I got bruised bum bone feeling from about 20 weeks - 25 weeks if I sat down too long, but havent had it lately. Its to do with your centre of gravity shifting so all the weight goes on your coxic (sp).

Well I had a massive cry when hubby got home yday about my parents leaving and then about this damn holiday in feb and he said he will try and get it sorted, but who knows. Anyway, now all our visitors have left its back to being on my own so trying to get used to that again. I have quite a bit to do to keep me busy but my motivation seems to have gone out the window!

 

[beccybobeccy]

I'm going to try this multi-quote thing out with a couple...

Ta da......................................................i dont have diabetes...........................gosh today is a good day !

YaaaaY!!

I have almost finished all of my christmas shopping just two more presents to get. Think I might start wrapping them all this weekend and I need to decorate the christmas cake. I am soooo tempted to put the decs up but hubby wont let me until the 1st. I just love christmas! lol and found out today that Tony (My husband) wont be working Christmas day!!

Oh my word! I am scared after reading this! I need to start with Xmas shopping soon!! Great news about hubby!!

Well I had a massive cry when hubby got home yday about my parents leaving and then about this damn holiday in feb and he said he will try and get it sorted, but who knows.

Fingers crossed that everything will be okay



There has been a lot of drama in 3rd Tri forum today... love a bit of drama but its all a bit much really. It's much calmer here xxx

 

[beccybobeccy]

oooh the multiquoting worked!! yay me!

 

[hodbert]

Well I had a massive cry when hubby got home yday about my parents leaving and then about this damn holiday in feb and he said he will try and get it sorted, but who knows.

Fingers crossed that everything will be okay



There has been a lot of drama in 3rd Tri forum today... love a bit of drama but its all a bit much really. It's much calmer here xxx

Thanks Beccy, I am def crossing my fingers!

Whats the drama? I always miss it as I am so far behind UK. There seems to have been a lot of drama over there lately, not good

 

[beccybobeccy]

Well I had a massive cry when hubby got home yday about my parents leaving and then about this damn holiday in feb and he said he will try and get it sorted, but who knows.

Fingers crossed that everything will be okay



There has been a lot of drama in 3rd Tri forum today... love a bit of drama but its all a bit much really. It's much calmer here xxx

Thanks Beccy, I am def crossing my fingers!

Whats the drama? I always miss it as I am so far behind UK. There seems to have been a lot of drama over there lately, not good

The jist I got was that some guy had joined and was being very "perfect OH".... then "his wife" joined... and a few of the forum members started recieving PM's from both of them being completely inappropriate.

It was all a bit odd....and a bit scary... the threads are "I'm gonna be a daddy"... and then the one where he seems to have been outed was "Top bloke and nice girl". They've been locked now though.

lately things have been turning a bit nasty very quickly... must be all the hormones flying around...

 

[hodbert]

Oh yeh I've read them now, weird things happening! Although for last 10 mins every time I click on 3rd trimester, it redirects me to the BNB homepage so i cant get in

 

[LittleMrs]

Weird, beccy, glad that's not happened on our thread.

Naomi, hodbert, I'm so glad the bum thing isn't just me.

Hodbert, sorry you're feeling down, I'd be feeling rubbish too. Admire you being able to live overseas- I'm such a homebody I still live in the tiny town I grew up in. I really like the sound of new Zealand but I couldn't make it so I have a lot of admiration for you. Also, I put bum bone coz I couldn't spell it either lol.

 

[hodbert]

LittleMrs - thanks I don't know how these people who just up and emigrate to the likes of Australia without even visiting do it! I find it so hard, but then if you say anything people think you are not making the most of the opoortunity or not appreciating it. Thing is I am quite shy, not very independant and hate doing things on my own - not a good combination when hubby is at work all day and I am home alone! I'm just counting down the months til our return now (10!) and looking forward to the arrival of bubs!

 

[mum2be2011]

The jist I got was that some guy had joined and was being very "perfect OH".... then "his wife" joined... and a few of the forum members started recieving PM's from both of them being completely inappropriate.

It was all a bit odd....and a bit scary... the threads are "I'm gonna be a daddy"... and then the one where he seems to have been outed was "Top bloke and nice girl". They've been locked now though.

lately things have been turning a bit nasty very quickly... must be all the hormones flying around...

Just read both those threads and I have to admit although I am very embarrassed by it I was one of the people he sucked in. I wrote a really long post yesterday saying how decent he was etc etc, gave him some advice and after my OH read it he actually signed up to the site and commented in this blokes thread.

What worries me is that in the "im going to be a daddy" thread one lady has commented that she has her eye on another bloke that recently joined and has only made a few posts and has commented in the thread (think she is referring to my OH) and later on another lady says its weird as he is the 3rd bloke to join in 2 days. My OH is a genuine guy and im really worried that if he makes any more posts he is going to be hunted down and potentially banned. Im hoping that if it is my OH they are referring to that they look at his profile and his other posts and also the 2 friends he has on here. 1 of them being me and the other his best mate who has been a member since becomming pregnant in 2008. He refuses to post in the pregnancy threads as he says its weird as he isnt the one who is pregnant although he did post in 3rd trimester yesterday to give this "topbloke" some praise. He wanted to join us in here as a jellybean but I told him it might be a tad weird.

Sorry for the mini rant ladies, it worries me some of the stuff I read on here, it makes you wonder just how many people are actually genuine

 

[mum2be2011]

I just wanted to say thank you to the lovely ladies who commented on my fb status today and especially Naomi for sending me a message asking how I was now feeling. Its nice to know that people care.

I didnt post in here about feeling ill as there are lots of ladies in here with complications, and problems and also 1 lady having her twins so early. I felt as if my problems today were just trivial compared to some of the things being posted in here, and didnt want to add any more negative thoughts.

The last few weeks I feel like Ive done nothing but moan and whinge about being/feeling ill and it isnt fair on you all. Sorry ladies x

 

[hodbert]

Mum2be, if I can whinge about my situation you definitely can! That is what this place is for and as the ladies said to me before although we are behind a computer screen we are all here for each other. Please don't feel like your complaints are trivial just because someone else may be going through something completely different, they still affect you and are worth talking about if you need to. With regards to your OH I saw other ppl comment about some new guy who had just joined, but they did later realise whoever it was, he was genuine and the mods also pointed this out. If it was your OH they referred to I hope he hasnt taken it personally and it hasnt put him off posting, I think it was just bad timing with all this crap going on. If he, or you, feel weird posting on this thread, there is a male forum he could post in. Most people on here are happy for men to post and welcome them on here, its nice to gain another perspective.

 

[Disneydancr]

Wow... first day back at work and look at all I missed!

Don't have the numb bum bone (coccyx), but when I'm on my feet for a long time, I get a numb pubic bone- but painful at the same time, if you can imagine.

As for posting things on here vs facebook.... don't worry about what you post, especially here. At least on this thread you have a lovely bunch of women who want to help and who are going through similar things. I don't know about the rest of you, but I post WAY more on this thread than I post anywhere else, especially facebook. Here I know you can sympathize, or at least try to be sympathetic. Many of my friends on facebook just wouldn't get it and/or DO NOT want to hear it.

Work was ok today, but I had to remind myself to sneak into the breakroom and grab a snack every hour or so to make sure I kept my energy up (I'm on my feet all day at work, so it's not like I can just sit down and relax).

For some reason, I'm in a foul mood tonight. There's no good reason... I'm not mad at anything in particular... just pi$$y. I wonder if it's because my back hurts... or just over exhausted from going back to work after a week and a half... or if my LO is pi$$y from being in the brace for 12 hours straight today... or if I'm hungry... or what. All I know is I want it to go away so I don't slip up and take it out on somebody. OH is asleep right now, and I want nothing more than just to wake him up and make him rub my back and snuggle me and stay awake until I can fall asleep too... but I know that wouldn't be fair.

Thanks for listening to my rant again... I Feel like I may be complaining too much... hopefully I find more good stuff to write about too so I'm not just bringing negativity to this thread.

 

[blessed]

no such thing as complaining too much Disney!

Glad your day at work is done and all is well!

 

[jms895]

Racheal hope you are ok hun?!!

I am sure I moan more than you ! xxxx

I am gonna start again now, work today and my back is still killing! TFI Friday!

 

[LittleMrs]

Lol tfi Friday.

I would just like to say that I love the whinging- it makes me feel like i'm not the only person who feels that way. Also, like disneydancr says, a lot of my friends just don't want to hear it or they don't understand.

Hodbert, I totally know what you mean (on all accounts), I'm quite antisocial. I'm shy but it comes across as excessive talking and I'm not a fan of meeting new people so you have all of my sympathy.

Also, I agree when someone said the 3rd tri thing makes you worry about who's genuine- we've all shared so many private things. I'm just gonna continue to assume that everyone on this thread is genuine- we've all gone through so much together.